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Somebody Please Help Me


Misty Rose

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I wish my grandma would quit her threats and just hit me so that everyone can see that this is no fucking joke :(

 

You all think I'm only exaggerating, that I'm making a big deal out of this, when I have a grandma always threatening to knock my teeth out, you can see why I can't be happy here :(

 

If she ever does hit me I can't even go to the police down here. If my life ever becomes worse I'm screwed. If things get to that level I WILL kill myself. That will be my final limit. The worst part is not even my ex is willing to aid me when I need a friend to talk to :( I have no one

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If the police won't help and no one else will then plan B will be defend yourself if she does try and hit you. And hit HARD. If she has no love for you then you don't go showing her any in kind.

 

People DISPISE people that hit younger people, tell someone. It is against the law to assault another person, being a parent/guardian/relative does not give immunity to that law. They'll be numbers you can all for someone to intervene. If you can get on the forum then you can surely find these numbers using google or something.

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I'd agree with Malinter at least in the second paragraph. There has to be a way and it doesn't hurt trying.

 

Also, I would love to be the friend you have when you need it. I've been trying a little bit to be by your side. We can talk more often if you really need someone. I know I'm online but I'm still willing to be there for you. Just keep me in mind? :)

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If the police won't help and no one else will then plan B will be defend yourself if she does try and hit you. And hit HARD. If she has no love for you then you don't go showing her any in kind.

 

People DISPISE people that hit younger people, tell someone. It is against the law to assault another person, being a parent/guardian/relative does not give immunity to that law. They'll be numbers you can all for someone to intervene. If you can get on the forum then you can surely find these numbers using google or something.

I'm not gonna hit my grandma because then my cousins may hit me and the whole family will hate me. I won't be able to live with that for two more years :(

 

And those numbers are most likely for people in the US. Down here parents hit their kids all the time as a form of discipline, so that's why the police won't help. It's just that common -_-

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I'd agree with Malinter at least in the second paragraph. There has to be a way and it doesn't hurt trying.

 

Also, I would love to be the friend you have when you need it. I've been trying a little bit to be by your side. We can talk more often if you really need someone. I know I'm online but I'm still willing to be there for you. Just keep me in mind? :)

 

There really is no way to do anything if my grandma does end up hitting me :( And I appreciate it, I can use many friends to help me get through this -_-

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Then you should hit your cousins and care less about what your family thinks of you.

 

It's not that easy, I don't want to make my situation harder than it already is :(

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If abuse is that common where you live, i'd say...

Save up money whenever you get it. That way, you can pack up and get out the second you get the chance.

Another thing, do you best not to make her upset with you. I'm sure you already do this, just making sure.

Have you tried talking to her about it, or any of your other family? It cant hurt to try. Try and stay strong, you're not alone. I personally haven't gone through it, but there are other people who have gone through it and got through it. You can do it!

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Please don't ever give up. The world has many horrible people in it, and every good person like yourself makes the world that much more of a better place. Just by existing, you do the world good. So don't say no one would care if you died. Any decent person who cared about good, kind-hearted people like yourself should.

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First of all, I am so so sorry you have to deal with this. Threats are completely uncalled for. Wishing your grandmother would hit you won't make the situation any better. Try to talk to your parents or your other family members one more time, and be firm. Say how serious the situation really is. Do you have a friend you can live with? That way you can escape from your grandmother and have someone to support you.

 

Please, DO NOT kill yourself. Don't end your life because of this. Think how this would impact the lives of those who love you dearly. Now idk if you are Christian, but I will say this anyway. God understands how you feel. You think He ignores your problems, but He actually wants to help you. It may be hard to understand, and I completely get that. Just pray to God; ask Him for guidance out of this situation and pray that He will give you peace. I hope you get out of this situation soon, I will be praying for you. Good luck my friend and have a good day!(:

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If abuse is that common where you live, i'd say...

Save up money whenever you get it. That way, you can pack up and get out the second you get the chance.

Another thing, do you best not to make her upset with you. I'm sure you already do this, just making sure.

Have you tried talking to her about it, or any of your other family? It cant hurt to try. Try and stay strong, you're not alone. I personally haven't gone through it, but there are other people who have gone through it and got through it. You can do it!

 

I already have more than enough money to leave, I just don't have the ability to :( And I can't talk to other family because the cousins that live nearby actually encourage my grandma to hit me with a belt if I talk back -_-

 

 

Please don't ever give up. The world has many horrible people in it, and every good person like yourself makes the world that much more of a better place. Just by existing, you do the world good. So don't say no one would care if you died. Any decent person who cared about good, kind-hearted people like yourself should.

 

Not even my ex will care if I died, his life won't be impacted or changed in any way and neither will anyone else's -_- And I don't really feel like such a good person :(

 

 

First of all, I am so so sorry you have to deal with this. Threats are completely uncalled for. Wishing your grandmother would hit you won't make the situation any better. Try to talk to your parents or your other family members one more time, and be firm. Say how serious the situation really is. Do you have a friend you can live with? That way you can escape from your grandmother and have someone to support you.

 

Please, DO NOT kill yourself. Don't end your life because of this. Think how this would impact the lives of those who love you dearly. Now idk if you are Christian, but I will say this anyway. God understands how you feel. You think He ignores your problems, but He actually wants to help you. It may be hard to understand, and I completely get that. Just pray to God; ask Him for guidance out of this situation and pray that He will give you peace. I hope you get out of this situation soon, I will be praying for you. Good luck my friend and have a good day!(:

 

I don't have any parents and like I mentioned in my response to Snake's comment I can't talk to other family :( And I don't have any friends here -_-

 

I don't want to kill myself because I'm scared I won't succeed and that I'll go to Hell :( But I'm even more afraid of not being able to control myself one day and actually succeeding in killing myself because my pain is too much to bear -_-

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I would care if you died. Maybe my life would not be physically impacted, but I would still be quite sad.

 

There is proof you are a good person in how you are dealing with the situation you're in. If you did not have a good heart, I believe you would have already done horrible things. Quite possibly murder, theft, etc.

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I would care if you died. Maybe my life would not be physically impacted, but I would still be quite sad.

 

There is proof you are a good person in how you are dealing with the situation you're in. If you did not have a good heart, I believe you would have already done horrible things. Quite possibly murder, theft, etc.

 

There's nothing horrible I can really do ^_^

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Everybody is here for you, but not all of us feel that way. I care if my friends get hurt, and i don't want to see you get hurt either. 

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