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Are you the type of person where when you are sad, you want company, to be hugged, cuddled, or comforted orrrrr do you prefer to be alone, not wanna be touched for awhile and/or be isolated?

 

 

I am the "I dont wanna be touched right now" kinda person whenever I get sad. I don't wanna be hugged, I don't wanna be comforted and I wanna be alone. Nothing personal to my boyfriend, friends, and family ^^; I am just weird like that. I have always been the "no touchy" sad person. I dunno, it just makes me more comfortable when I am not touched. I usually wanna be isolated and calm myself down. 

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When I'm feeling a little blue, I usually just need a little time to myself. Being around others only makes the chances of me breaking down greater and I don't want that to happen. Sometimes though, the sadness is a bit too intense to deal with internally. When it gets heart-breakingly bad, I don't mind having someone to hug and be comforted by.

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Whenever I'm upset, I'll usually try to deal with it by myself. I don't want to bother other people with my problems.

 

Ironically whenever I have talked to others about it, I usually felt better afterwards.

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It really does depend on what you mean. For me there are 2 types of sad...

 

1) The type of sad, where I am just so depressed and don't really know why. I am talking like SUPER MAJORLY DEPRESSED here people. In those situations, I'd rather sort of work them out for myself.

 

2) And than there's Sad, Sad. Where I know what I'm upset about, and the only thing I want is advice and to stuff my face with junk food, maybe a hug or two, and just some support and that everything will be just fine. 

 

So, it really does depend on how sad you really mean.

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Whenever I'm sad, I usually prefer to be alone and figure out my problems. When I figure them out, I then go to the nearest person in my home and talk with them. :P

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I am the kind of person who enjoys company pretty much all the time but when I am sad I usually start isolating myself from the rest of the world, there have been a few occasions where I have been with someone else and there comforting helped but I mostly go alone when upset.

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Well I go and isolate myself and try to figure out why I am sad and then make a plan to get myself happy and to stop being sad about that problem. I never get hugs or kisses from anyone so I just try to get on with my life.

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I tend to isolate myself and force myself to smile and pretend to be happy because "Hurr I don't want to bother people with my sadness"

Then I get mad at said people for not realizing I'm sad and not helping me out. Then  I realize that I'm hating them for no valid reason and I calm myself down.

Oh I also instantly shoot down (metaphorically) anyone who asks me what's wrong.

 

So I want cuddles and support, but reject them.

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Ehh it depends on the situation, I guess. In real life one wouldn't notice I'm sad, so I keep it to myself. I'd usually only ask for hugs from a certain someone.

 

Or maybe I'm frustrated with certain people (rarely happens) and I just want to be alone away from them helping.

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When I'm sad I seem to philosophise. Why am I here? What is morality and is our social outlook on it misinterpreted? etc. I cry, I hug my pillow, I beg my friends for company. Yet everyday seems like an endless cycle of lonliness and pain.

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Sometimes I want to be alone when I'm sad, but most of the time I want someone to talk to (especially if the reason why I'm sad is because I'm lonely).

 

I'll usually want hugs if I'm sad, even if they're only internet hugs, since I don't have anyone to hug me in real life :c

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I usually hole up in my bedroom and play The Sims while leaving Netflix on in the background. Can't get anything done when I'm down really so I just slouch. Don't really have anypony to talk to most times except special friends so I try and handle it all on my own now. It used to be different but now I just can't pay for therapy as much as I did before lol. I still get it sometimes though. Helps a bit.

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Personally it depends on the reason behind my sadness.

For example, if my husband and I have recently fought I only want to be loved by him but if I am generally sad, I just listen to comforting music.

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If I'm sad I just wanna be left alone. I don't like showing my emotions to people. I'm really emotional so if I feel like crap, someone making me talk about how I feel is just gonna make me start crying and getting more upset than I already was.

 

So yeah, I just hide in my room until I feel better.

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If I'm sad I just wanna be left alone. I don't like showing my emotions to people. I'm really emotional so if I feel like crap, someone making me talk about how I feel is just gonna make me start crying and getting more upset than I already was.

 

So yeah, I just hide in my room until I feel better.

 

I hate showing my weaker side of my emotions as well. It never really ends well... probably because it takes a lot get me that upset to start crying. I'm an ugly sobber and I usually can't breath very well... It's all really embarrassing. I never stay sad long though, no matter what the thing I was crying about was... I get distracted eventually.

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When I get sad I'm inclined to lay there and just be by myself, but that's like the worst possible thing for me, because I just waste time and drag on being all mopey. So I usually just try to occupy myself with something, pleasure in toil is god's gift to man.

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When I'm sad or upset... I have a harder time expressing myself. With that said, I usually prefer to be left alone at that point. Unless it's a serious situation that needs attention from others. Other than that though, I do prefer to be alone. Most of the time my state of panic and such can get embarrassing for me.

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