Thank you Pink Mist. I like The Outsiders too.

Despite how hard things get for us, I know that our love will last through all of it. As long as our love for each other never dies, it will get us through every trial life throws at us I love you Chris

I love you too Gabriela.

I hope you guys will get through this.

Thank you Pink Mist. I like The Outsiders too.

It's a really cool movie

 

I just came back and what is this? I bet many people I knew have left as well.

 

I don't quite get it. Haven't been here for a while, so let me get this straight. Your Sanderspie (or whatevs) is getting busy with his life, and you're not allowed to use PC or Notebook anymore? Does your mother know that you have a boyfriend online? Or at least, does she know that talking here makes you happy (assuming that it does)? If no, talk to her. If yes, still talk to her.

 

It's your happiness. Your happiness belongs to you, not anyone else (unless you're a some sort of slave). It's not your mother's to take. I might sound really selfish for saying that, but that's what I do. I won't let anyone to take my happiness. It's a precious thing to me, so I will keep it. Is it the same to you?

 

Your source of happiness (love and friendship) isn't something wrong like drugs. There's no reason not to keep it, if you want to be happy. Most mothers will do anything for her children's happiness, after all.

 

As a note, I've done this for years, and I never regretted it. Growing a thick head and keeping my own happiness. Though, I once gave up in love a bit too easily. I will tell you not to do the same. You said you will keep fighting, so hit them hard (translate: be brave). Face your mother (don't hit her, though).

 

P.S. I just returned to fetch some contacts.

 

He's been torn apart from the forums too by his family We both can't do anything about it unfortunately -_- I can't fight back and explain why this place is special to me because she might disown me for defying her authority, she's threatened to do it before It's not as easy with my mother as it is for other parents. She doesn't care.  

My happiness is extremely precious, and I care about everyone here and I consider my friends as amazing people, but she just doesn't see it that way. She doesn't want me talking to strangers online period -_- I wish I could do something, but really I just can't.

I hope you guys will get through this.

Me too

Maybe you guys could move out?

Maybe you guys could move out?

I can't unfortunately I'm still a minor. That and I live in an entirely different country

Well, crap.

Well, crap.

Yeah unfortunately there's really nothing we can do but hope for the best and try as hard as we can to keep this relationship alive

I can't unfortunately I'm still a minor. That and I live in an entirely different country

You can in a few years though. Like I said, once you are 18 and you have what it takes to make it out there in the real world, then you have the legal right to leave the house.

Maybe you guys could move out?

I'm actually working on that right now. I'm not sure how it will interfere with my college education, nor am I certain as to how long it will take. For me to establish a bank account, find a decent paying job, learn how to drive and get a car, establish a budget, etc... the list goes on.

Dsanders...I agree with you. I honestly enjoy being here myself. It kinda makes my life here in the suburbs less boring.

You can in a few years though. Like I said, once you are 18 and you have what it takes to make it out there in the real world, then you have the legal right to leave the house.

 

 

 

 

I'm actually working on that right now. I'm not sure how it will interfere with my college education, nor am I certain as to how long it will take. For me to establish a bank account, find a decent paying job, learn how to drive and get a car, establish a budget, etc... the list goes on.

I'll see if she lets me go Sure I have the legal right but still it'll be tough to let my mom go No matter how much she disciplines me and makes my life difficult, I still love her and I don't want to hurt her either -_- I have to do it all in time.

He's been torn apart from the forums too by his family We both can't do anything about it unfortunately -_- I can't fight back and explain why this place is special to me because she might disown me for defying her authority, she's threatened to do it before It's not as easy with my mother as it is for other parents. She doesn't care.  

 

My happiness is extremely precious, and I care about everyone here and I consider my friends as amazing people, but she just doesn't see it that way. She doesn't want me talking to strangers online period -_- I wish I could do something, but really I just can't.

I asked you if you've talked to her about it. I just don't see any reason why she would forbid you from using a computer. I have a feeling that it's because you're using it too much. I mean, I see nothing wrong with having a special friend online.

Fighting doesn't have to be a conflict. When I said, "Hit them hard," I meant your own fears. Just talk to her. Ask why. Get an agreement. Doing this isn't easy, I know. It never was, even for me, but it's the best way to solve parent-children problem. Be brave, stand, talk, bargain and get a win-win solution. I won't tell you not to give up. I just want you to remember that your happiness is yours. Not your parents'. Not even Dsanders'.

Ah, some of my friends got banned, and I can't get their contacts.

This damn place.

You can in a few years though. Like I said, once you are 18 and you have what it takes to make it out there in the real world, then you have the legal right to leave the house.

 

I'm actually working on that right now. I'm not sure how it will interfere with my college education, nor am I certain as to how long it will take. For me to establish a bank account, find a decent paying job, learn how to drive and get a car, establish a budget, etc... the list goes on. 

Now, now. Don't be hasty.

I asked you if you've talked to her about it. I just don't see any reason why she would forbid you from using a computer. I have a feeling that it's because you're using it too much. I mean, I see nothing wrong with having a special friend online.

 

Fighting doesn't have to be a conflict. When I said, "Hit them hard," I meant your own fears. Just talk to her. Ask why. Get an agreement. Doing this isn't easy, I know. It never was, even for me, but it's the best way to solve parent-children problem. Be brave, stand, talk, bargain and get a win-win solution. I won't tell you not to give up. I just want you to remember that your happiness is yours. Not your parents'. Not even Dsanders'.

 

Ah, some of my friends got banned, and I can't get their contacts.

This damn place.

 

 

Now, now. Don't be hasty.

You may see nothing wrong with it sure, but you just can't reason with my mother. She's right about everything, I've tried talking to her before really I have. That I'm not doing anything wrong at all but she just doesn't understand.

How do you think THIS generation feels, Pink? *sarcasm*

Gonna miss you guys. Wish the two of you best of luck. Sucks you're being forced to go.  *hugs* 

You may see nothing wrong with it sure, but you just can't reason with my mother. She's right about everything, I've tried talking to her before really I have. That I'm not doing anything wrong at all but she just doesn't understand.

I believe she has a reason, and she just doesn't want you to know. There's always a reason, whatever that is. Talking is the only way to pull it out. Other than that,

@,Ok, you know what?  Time to lay the fucking smack-down!  Your mother should NOT have that much control over you at all!  Anything you buy with YOUR money is YOURS and shes own 0% rights to it!  I'm sorry if I seem like an ass posting this but friends of mine don't deserve this.  I want you (if you don't mind), to walk up to her and lay down the damn law!  Go up to her and tell her that SHE does NOT run YOUR life, tell her that you don't give a damn if she's trying to protect you, it's YOUR happiness she's stealing from you!  Draw the line and tell her that she has just entered a battle that she can't win; I don't care if she's always right, if you fight hard enough then you have already won!  

If she doesn't agree with any of that then go back into your room, gather your things and WALK OUT OF THE FUCKING DOOR!  DO NOT LOOK BACK and keep going!  If she tries to stop you, and tries to hit you then hit her back.  My point is, that you are Indestructible, you have determination that incorruptible, from the other side you're a terror to behold!  Tell her if she does not co-operate that annihilation will be un-avoidable! 

(I think I may have went a bit over board with this, I am extremely sorry if this offends you in any way shape or form.  Best of luck to you two.)

;~; nuuu
I'm going to miss you both D': 
*hugs* Thank you so much for being here while you could, Pink Mist, you were a great part of this forum and was so inviting for anyone to be a friend, I hope that one day you'll be able to come back, as I'd love to get to be a friend of yours and all. You're a great person and don't deserve to lose this home :c 
I hope you and Sanders can still keep talking, since you two are the cutest couple to ever exist, ever.

*salutes*

I don't know you too well, but I can see both you and DSanders are great people. You will always be remembered. I left a pretty... um... controversial post on DSander's blog. You can read it if you want. I hope it doesn't offend anyone...

But anyways... godspeed, Pink Mist. We will miss you ;~;

n...no! Misty! no! Please don't go!

You should show this inter blog to your mom. And if she don't understand what this community mean to you after she read it. Well than i would go ahead say she's cold hearted bi*Beeep*. Well if hope find one way sort things out. Thankfully toh, she can control you your hole life. And one's you move out you may do what ever you want with your free time.

Nein! i hate goodbyes even though you aren't leaving permanently! Even though we'll all miss you and Dsanders, i though i'd give you a little reminder onto how much people love you guys! 

Adiós y la mejor de las suertes a los dos

I'm just gonna leave this here.

It's been a pleasure knowing you two. Good luck in the future.

I'm just gonna leave this here.

 

 

It's been a pleasure knowing you two. Good luck in the future.

Thanks dude. Good luck to you too