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Getting depressed/bored/lonely/suicidal?

Balareth

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Hello! let me ask you something, Have you ever feel that nopony likes you? you feel like trash when you see yourself in the mirror and see that you are not attractive? that a divorce of your parents, unable to find your special somepony, that your "friends" ignore you make you end it with all? if your answer was yes let me tell you something... you are a winner, seriously.

Sometimes when you see that your friends have a marefriend and you are lonely and feel pathetic, try to see the benefits, having a girlfriend is really nice, but sometimes this turns into a battlefield to see who is dominant and who is dominated, and i mean sometimes, think in everything you can do by yourself, you can make your own world in the internet and make creative things, you must choose a goal and if you pursuit very hard you are not gonna think in have a girlfriend.

whats the point to feel sorry of yourself, just laying in the bed, crying, thinking why others are happy, we are humans and as such, we must fight to earn the happiness, fight very hard and you will see the results, but if you wanna have results at YOUR time, be smart, make a plan, have strategie, think of it as a hunting for the girl of your dreams, some sweet words, caring, supporting, gifts, is all a part of looking for your special somepony.

Talking about plan personally i feel like all works well if you have a plan, a well made plan cant fail obviously and for that, everything should work for you.

Now lets move to people to think they are ugly, tel me, have you see yourself in a mirror? probably not, to me, see yourself in the mirror is not only watch the person i live in, but also the result of your wonderful lyears, fights, efforts, self steem, personality and style, each person has a unique style and you should be proud of it, because thats what it makes you special, if you make a mistake like kill yourself that style is gonna lost forever and nopony will be able to replace it, if you expose your stlye, and be extrovert, theres gonna be people who appreciate it and love it.

ungliness doesnt matter, you can have a really beautiful girl with nice feelings if you know how to treat her, girls dont care if you are ugly if you are really sweet to them. a common error of all of you is being shy, now i wana tell you something, i understand if you are shy, you have a past with mocks, laughs, humillation so is really hard to trust in a person, yup, i know how it feels, but you must make a promise to yourself: Promise you are never gonna fear again another person, that theres nothing a person can do to destroy what make you who you are, that you will stand up and face bullies with a big smile saying I AM *insert name here* AND YOU COULDNT DEFEAT ME! I STILL AM POWERFUL BECAUSE AM A PERSON LIKE YOU!!!

defeat shyness, is not a protector, it is your true enemy, the bullies defeat their shyness cowardly by insulting others and make them feel popular and cool, there a lot of ways to overcome your shyness, you are good on something? make it real! show it to the world what you can do and nopony can defeat it, you just need a little confidence and with confidence and bravery you are gonna forget you are ugly, say YES i may be full of pimples or using glasses, or brackets, or my hair is a mess but I AM *insert name here* AND LIKE ME THERE SHALL BE NO OTHER!!

Being ugly has certain benefit: you wouldnt care to keep an image and you will focus more on your purposes and projects so is an advantage (sorry for my bad english) showing how good you are with what you do, is enough to have confidence

Now lets move to the persons who wants to finish with your life.. guys and girls, i know that life may seem like it sucks but come on! you are not finish any pain, you are just giving it to other, is like a sickness you provocke, it is best when YOU are the solution, arent you brave enough to conquer your fears? people choose the easy way and the laziest to solve things out, cutting myself or killing myself, everyone hates me, well... have you meet the Entire planet? somalia, egypt, china, iraq, Mexico, America, Canada, Germany are you saying that all the person of all continents hate you when they dont even know you? you probably say yes just to fullfill that need to get attention, yes, you are desperately looking a way to have attention, let me ask to all the persons who wanna commit suicide and cut themselfs, are you do the same if all your family and friends are 24/7 watching what you do, what you eat, your hobbies and try to like them just to keep you happy?

let me tell you a story: there was a girl on my countrty México named Gabriela, she had a long distance relationship with another guy, thing is that everything was heaven but one day, they broke, and Gabriela decided to kill herself, she took a blancket and tie it to her neck and took a selfie with her smiling leaving a suicide note on facebook with the picture and proceed to the suicide, after that, all her friends, the people aroundr her mock of her death, they make memes with the corpse photo taken by the police, make things on twitter like #posmemato (#illkillmyself) why? because her death was announced like a circus and people believed that was only to get attention and get that last grain of relevance and she even didnt get it.

Feel like ending your life? well Game Over and start New Game!! if everithing was lost for you, find something else to care, this world is huge, you lost your treasure, find another! would you like to see buried with worms in your body with a eternal expression of depression in your face? NO! you get up, break the wall and raise your hands, you feel that you dont have anything to lose? FINE then there shouldnt be a problem to face your enemies, starting with your inner enemies, since you dont have anything to lose, you have all to win, just remember the war is still out there, and you must be a soldier and not a victim!

 

finally i wanna add... comment! i really wanna see feedback, if you are agree or disagree i would not know until you say it to me, greeting MLP fourms

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Wow thanks this actually made me feel better since I was feeling like total shut all of yesterday and today. You can speak some very encouraging words that can make others feel better

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Nice words you spoke there. You really thought this through and it had given me a thought about what i'm really doing in my life. I don't have any friends at college and my roommate transferred today to another college so i'll be alone at my dorm as well.But anyway, thank you for showing us your wise words. 

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I wish I had the guts to kill myself but I just dont.

 

I guess that's a good thing.

 

But your advice was good, the only thing I disagree with is the fact I'm a winner.

 

I'm a pathetic worm...

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I wish I had the guts to kill myself but I just dont.

 

I guess that's a good thing.

 

But your advice was good, the only thing I disagree with is the fact I'm a winner.

 

I'm a pathetic worm...

 

*hugs* the only being that put you in that way is yourself, you have the keys to stop being a worm, you have the power in your hands, magic, to convert in worms the ones that see you that way, how? with bravery and not giving a buck what others say

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