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what did i get myself into


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first here and now on DA its the same feeling same system same thing all over again just different sites and different people

 

here it was bit easier since it is relatively small community on this site only about 100-200 messages in a day to respond to plus greeting every new member took me so long i felt more like a machine not human I broke the friends system here too having too many friends and i cant bare to unfriend anyone

 


now on deviantart over 300 messages to reply to and too much other stuff to handle and i check every new pic of rarity daily and post it in my rarity group i watched 5000 people and now my most stressful moments are when i find new person to watch is that i need to unwatch someone because 5000 is the site limit

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There is no need to worry about unwatching people or unfriending others on a site such as this one. You don't have to be friends with everybody and you don't have to look into everything people post on dA ;)

 

People will not take it personally, they will be fine with it :)

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There is no need to worry about unwatching people or unfriending others on a site such as this one. You don't have to be friends with everybody and you don't have to look into everything people post on dA ;)

 

People will not take it personally, they will be fine with it :)

i cant its too tough 

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You're spreading yourself WAY too thin, oo. You're only one person. Jonas is right. You don't need to be friends with everyone -- nor can you. You're needlessly stressing yourself out and you deserve to treat yourself just as well as you treat people on MLPF and DA. :)

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You're spreading yourself WAY too thin, oo. You're only one person. Jonas is right. You don't need to be friends with everyone -- nor can you. You're needlessly stressing yourself out and you deserve to treat yourself just as well as you treat people on MLPF and DA. :)

its hard to find the balance  i tried once but then one my friends  was sad because i didnt message her sooner =( now i feel stressed every moment i see that there is messages i havent replied for long   i dont know  what to do

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its hard to find the balance  i tried once but then one my friends  was sad because i didnt message her sooner =( now i feel stressed every moment i see that there is messages i havent replied for long   i dont know  what to do

You can try to narrow things down. For instance, those you have not spoken to in a long time and have not been on the forums for a very long time, I say there is no harm in removing them. 

 

In other instances, people you don't necessarily speak all too often with (or never) you do not need to worry about offending them :)

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I think you're taking TOO much responsibility out of this, ooB. I'm not gonna lie, you're as friendly as Pinkie Pie (and as fabulous as Rarity), and that is amazing about you! But I think we all need to give ourselves permission to stay relaxed. If you're too stressed about it you could also make a post on DA explaining why you haven't/can't reply faster to everyone, I'm sure people will understand, and if they don't, that's THEIR problem. That's what I think anyway. *hugs*

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Why don't you make a journal entry on dA saying that you just can't reply to every comment and keep up with everyone on the site?  I bet that you get a lot of responses to that journal that tell you it's OK, and that you shouldn't let it stress you out.

 

I know you like making people happy, but you shouldn't have to be unhappy to do it.  No one who knows you wants you to be unhappy.

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I know how you feel, i subscribed to so many People on Youtube, that i have problems finding my favorites back. Same thing on Tumblr, since i want to follow anyone who follows me, i follow way to many and have almost reached the limit.

 

But now im often just thinking :

 

Should i really add them to the list? I mean, should i add anyone to my favorites if they only have a few things i like? And so i only subscribe or follow people that post a lot of stuff i like, instead of following anyone that has only like 1 or 2 things i like.

 

I know, its probably unfair to some People...but what is someone supposed to do?

By following to many People, you maybe completely forget some and never check them out again...so, you will disappoint People anyway. At least i feel so. Its a hard decision, but...you cant please anyone. Or at least i surely cant.

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