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Improving my terrible social skills


Aeros Sine

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So, its been over a year since I had been made a blog post on MLP forums, so I'm only going to make a brief post because, right now I'm only writing for not much of a reason.

 

Anyway, I wanted to mention my bad social skills. I haven't talked to people much since I left the forums and I don't really know how to talk to people. Even online, it feels like I'm the "one outside". I don't feel a part of the "group". Every time I talk, everyone either ignores or scolds me to be quiet. I don't know what people want.

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I'm not very great at social activities like small talk and chatting even though I would like to make friends with people.

If I speak my voice is usually soft compared to others in the room. No matter how hard I try I can't make people pleased or happy. This affected my self esteem and anxiety pretty badly to the point that I decided to seek counseling for it to find a way to help solve this issue. Counseling isn't always for everyone and it isn't easy to open up. In a way it helped me to be more independent and be free to ask about how to learn communication but not give out too much personal information. Continue gradually to focus on seeking people who do care what you have to say and remember to not let negative thoughts or individuals affect your self esteem.
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