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Potential Girlfriend


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She's my manager at my shame job who's 3 years older than me (30), probably 30-50 LBS heavier than I'd prefer, and the only female to express a lot of interest in me. She clearly has a muscle fetish because she has groped my arms often, and with no attempt at subtly, holds my hand openly in front of everyone. She's trying really hard to get me, so... why not give her a shot? I'm a sex-obsessed pervert and I would really like to have someone to get sexy with. She's just a little bit too heavy for me to touch her anywhere near her holes. I have no idea how to politely ask her to lift some weights to help her lose some

Out of no strategies impulse, I bought some perfume for her in a nice case that I'll probably give to her in a week with the excuse of an early Christmas present. It'll be blatantly obvious it'll be a crush gift. Her crush is far more obvious. She even invited me to a date after our shifts ended at the same time. I declined

No 2nd guessing. I'll give her 1 try and see what happens

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Yeah, if you’re this shallow about it, don’t string her along.

Seriously, you’re not even concerned about her weight in the sense that she’s unhealthy. It’s all about what YOU want. Very self absorbed.

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I disagree with @ShadOBabe Everyone is shallow. Looks matter. Women want rich, good looking guys and guys want good looking women. That is a fact and it's not wrong to admit that. Even if some people legitimately don't care, that would be at most 1%. Let's not get high and mighty and act like 1 million years of evolution doesn't matter.

I would add that you should be honest and not lead someone along. It's ok to have whatever standards you want as long as you are honest. You can still be friends, and you both can figure out what your relationship should be.

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3 hours ago, BronyNumber42 said:

Women want rich, good looking guys and guys want good looking women.

Sure those things are a plus, but if the person with those traits is a scumbag underneath, I literally could not give a rat’s ass how hot they are.

EDIT: Also I’m a creationist, so I don’t give a rat’s ass about evolution either.

But yeah if she’s totally cool with the fact that his first thoughts going into a relationship was “how can I change this human being to fit MY needs”, then yeah go for it.

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On 11/27/2017 at 2:19 PM, Crystal Peppermint said:

It's sounds more like you just want to use her for sex.

If you don't like her for how she is, then just be a man and tell her you don't have feelings for her.

She wants to use me for sex. I don't want to have sex with her if she doesn't lose any weight

I currently don't have feelings for her because she's my boss and our relationship is currently only boss & employee. I'm a very reserved person. I don't like opening up to anyone without having the deepest trust for them. Very few people know me below the surface. Only 1 of my real life friends knows me deeply. This isn't a test nor anything like that, it's merely being ultra introverted

11 hours ago, BronyNumber42 said:

I would add that you should be honest and not lead someone along. It's ok to have whatever standards you want as long as you are honest. You can still be friends, and you both can figure out what your relationship should be.

If I get to the point of a date, my only plan is to test the waters with her and find out what happens before planning too far ahead. I really don't know what to expect and I don't want to plan on unreliable predicted information. I think it's fair to want an attractive girlfriend if she wants an attractive boyfriend. I have no idea how to politely bring up this fact. Since I don't know what she wants, beyond touching my muscles and seeing my abs, I don't know what I could offer her to make the exchange fair. But if the relationship turns into an agreement of fulfilling each others requirements, will it be worth having?

7 hours ago, ShadOBabe said:

EDIT: Also I’m a creationist, so I don’t give a rat’s ass about evolution either.

This comment is debate suicide

7 hours ago, ShadOBabe said:

But yeah if she’s totally cool with the fact that his first thoughts going into a relationship was “how can I change this human being to fit MY needs”, then yeah go for it.

Not entirely accurate. I don't know if I want a relationship with her if she won't exercise on her own freewill

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