There is something I want to tell you...

Lucky Bolt

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So, this is something that is long overdue. Something I’ve been aware of about myself for many years now but have never felt ready to admit it to anyone...not even to myself for that matter, but times have changed and over the past few months I’ve finally embraced the fact that yes, this isn’t a phase and it’s who I am,  it’s real. It’s me. I shouldn’t deny it anymore. 

Now, this may come as a shock to some of you on here who have known me for a while, as I’ve always kept it very well hidden simply because I was, honestly too scared to admit it, but now I feel like now is a good a time as any to finally push aside my doubts of, will I still be accepted by others, will you all look at me differently, etc, as this is MLPF and if there’s anywhere I’m going to come out about something like this, it’s here. The brony community is the most accepting place I know. 

 

I am bisexual. 

 

Yeah, probably weren’t expecting that were you? :adorkable: But there it is. I also figured, no better time to come out about being bisexual than Pride Month, right? This is honestly one of the hardest things I’ll ever do, coming out about this, but this is the only place I plan on doing it. I’ve not come out anywhere other than the internet, mostly because of my family. Don’t get me wrong, I love them dearly and they love me and I know no matter what they’d still love me and support me, but yet...I don’t feel like revealing this to them, not yet. I might someday but for now, I’m keeping it here. 

I just would like to mention two very special people on I know who I’ve come out to already. @Cyclone1066 and @Misty Breeze. Thank you both, so much, for being the amazing friends (and boyfriend ^_^) you are. You’re both here for me no matter what and I couldn’t ask for better. Thank you both for accepting me and supporting me. I love you both. <3 

Now, the question is, will you all accept me too? I guess time will tell, and with that, I shall conclude this entry. Thank you to all who may read this. :rarity: 

I do believe it’s time for Lucky to show her true colors. 

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Bi Pride! 💕💜💙

 

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I think acceptance goes without saying - this is The Herd, we want you to be true to yourself and happy with that :)

I am glad you feel able to be a little more open about this now, especially, as you say, when it is Pride week. I imagine it won't make a lot of practical difference though, just increase the range of others you can admit you find sexy, but not as much so as your Special Somepony :D

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Honestly, I already figured as much. ;) But congratulations on coming out. I know it's not easy, even online (let alone in real life). I'm pretty sure it goes without saying that I have a lot of experience on the subject considering my sexuality. I've always been open about being LGBT since I've been on the internet really, but I can understand that there's always the potential for judgmental people on the internet. I've been called all sorts of names, and I've had to deal with slurs more than enough times. I say LGBT, because, as you and most other people who will read this will know, I used to be pansexual (as in having an attraction to someone regardless of sex), but I'm gay now. :P  By the way, I know from experience that it is actually possible for someone's sexuality to change that much if anyone says that sounds hard to believe. I'd get into more detail, but it would almost certainly get beyond PG13.

 

IRL, most of my family knows (not sure if my older sister, who I sometimes think could be bi herself, knows), but it was more recent when they learned of it. I had to tell my grandma after my last ex-boyfriend gave me a Valentine's Day gift in the mail, and the rest have learned recently since I started my relationship with my current boyfriend of now roughly 4 months. It was definitely a long journey to come out to them (I mean I've known about my feelings towards the same sex since elementary school). I was worried they'd not accept me for it, considering how I hear about this and that blanket statement about the LGBT community . I still haven't come out about my gender identity to them (if anybody doesn't know, I actually identify as a non-binary gender. Though I've learned to accept sexed pronouns as well), because they constantly make transphobic comments. Though I should never have to anyways. :twismile: I mean they shouldn't ever see me crossdressing at any point, right? :sealed:

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Congratulations on coming out, my friend! :) Of course we accept you! :rarity: That we can all be ourselves is one of the things I like the most about this community. :fluttershy:

Good luck with coming out to your family (when you feel it's the right time, of course). :kindness: I'm sure it'll go well too!

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Trying not to be blunt here, I'm just bad at... well, expressing emotions.

Congrats on coming out, though. I didn't really see it coming, this is all kind of out of left field for me, but it doesn't make me think of you any less as a person. It's pretty brave for someone to deviate from the social norm, so I'm glad to see that you're becoming comfortable with yourself and your sexuality.

Proud of you, sis. :P

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1 hour ago, Misty Breeze said:

Well uh, question. How do you make a blog post on here?:adorkable:

To the left of the notifications tab, there's a plus sign, that's where you go to make new content.  Whether it be a status post or a blog post.  Hope that helped!!!

Also, congrats on coming out!!! @Lucky Bolt

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I couldn't care less what someone's sexual orientation or sexual preference is so OF COURSE I accept you. You should not have to feel so held back in 2019 about this. Good luck and I hope you find someone who loves you for exactly who you are. 

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Happy for ya. There is nothing wrong with being Bi. Its quite common nowadays.

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I suspected as much, like @~Angel Dust~ said. But I was just waiting for you to make that single push to be open about it. Because in the end? We'll accept you for who you are. Because we're more than just your friends, Lucky. We're your family. :)

Congrats on coming out. I'm proud of you.

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I will always accept you, Lucky.

No matter what.

 

I’m so happy for you and I really admire you even more than everbefore.

 

Once your friend, always your friend.

 

*hugs*

You should feel soproud of yourself, we all are.

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Of course! Congrats, man. 

I'm accept and support anypony. I am so proud of you.

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I’m really proud of you for coming out. It’s a very brave thing to do and I respect you even more now for it! 

And of course, I absolutely accept you! *waves Bi flag in support* :D 

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12 minutes ago, Lucky Bolt said:

@CypherHoof @~Angel Dust~ @Tacodidra @Meson Bolt @Sparklefan1234 @TheTaZe @Thuja @Azul Maya @StitchandMLPlover @Twilighto @Renegade the Unicorn @TheRockARooster @Phosphor, @Emerald<3 @Captain Clark

Thank you all so very much for the kind words and support. It really means a lot. :kindness: I love you all <3 

I along with everybody else have nothing but love for you, Lucky. <3

*hugs tight*

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Well, congratulations on coming on out friend!. I know this sort of thing can rather daunting to bring up, so it is a pretty large step for you. Will we accept you? Of course. Anyone who says otherwise can go take a hike.

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Good on you for coming out. I know it could sometimes be hard for someone to discover themselves in different ways, especially under certain circumstances, but you should be proud about how you feel towards others. I know that it was hard for me to accept that I like guys the same way I liked girls, but a friend I met on this forum helped me discover that side of me. (Shoutout to Your Nightly Spectre for helping me discover this) It’s a long story that I’m not gonna go into too much detail about. But, i’ve strangely found myself rather attracted to a few guys in my life in recent years, and it felt weird, but also right. The point is, you should be proud of how you feel towards others. 

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