I live in a culture (The United States of America) which manages to be obsessed with physical beauty and sexuality, while at the same time demonizing it. No easy feat. It's also no secret where the vilification comes from--it's our religious and puritanical roots. I'm told that not every culture has the bass-ackwards perspective on sex that we do, and that many of those cultures think we're completely bat-sh*t insane. No surprise there. And of course, there are cultures with far more unheal
From the blog "Justin_Case's Stop & Talk"
Ok, time to test your theory. Is it wrong (in any sense) to refuse to date a person because they are physically unattractive, even if you like their personality?
The other side of your societal shame coin is people shaming you if you don't find every morbidly obese person attractive. Why is it ok to say sex is nothing to be ashamed of, but it is not ok to say someone is ugly?
There is a ton of hypocrisy on that side. And it usually comes from unattractive people. Fat women who can't ge