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A friend's doomed future.

Despair

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Well shit... As predicted, my best friend from my childhood is growing up to be a disrespectful little shit.

 

I feel I should have tried harder to stop him from doing this...

 

My uncle told me he has been acting a lot like his abusive father who curses and threatens his mother.

 

I haven't talked to him in about 4 or five months. Last time we talked, I told him to NOT grow up like this. To rather change his life now while hes still young. He told me he was going to be a good person but be a little shit while hes young. And he thinks he has what it takes to join the military..

 

He probably started acting like this because of his new friends. They're the "yoloswag" type of people. His drunker grandpa and his mother who goes partying with his older sister probably isn't helping much.

 

It's really sad to see his grow up like this. He was my best friend once... now.... I just want to beat some sense into his head. A lot of sense.

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Since he's your friend, you should do your best to be there for him and help him out. You should be a positive influence in his life, when others are not. I'm not saying you should feel responsible for his choices, but you should do what you can to help him. If he refuses your help, or does not change despite your help, that's not your fault.

 

Also, it's important to be patient with him. It might take a long time for him to start thinking and acting in a more positive and constructive manner.

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Since he's your friend, you should do your best to be there for him and help him out. You should be a positive influence in his life, when others are not. I'm not saying you should feel responsible for his choices, but you should do what you can to help him. If he refuses your help, or does not change despite your help, that's not your fault.

 

Also, it's important to be patient with him. It might take a long time for him to start thinking and acting in a more positive and constructive manner.

Thank you for that.

 

I was planning on getting back into contact with him but it seems that he has deactivated his Facebook account. Now if I want to get in touch with him, I would have to visit his house. Which is difficult to do seeing as he lives across town from me. I just hope he starts to behave more properly...

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Thank you for that.

 

I was planning on getting back into contact with him but it seems that he has deactivated his Facebook account. Now if I want to get in touch with him, I would have to visit his house. Which is difficult to do seeing as he lives across town from me. I just hope he starts to behave more properly...

 

No problem.

 

You could visit him from time to time. You could also ask him for his phone number, or for some other way you could contact him more regularly.

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