I jokingly lick my friends all the time.

You're probably overreacting, it just sounds like a silly kind of thing.

I believe you're just reading way too much into this and your fiance was most likely doing it for the fun of it like in RPing. I've seen plenty of chat rooms get incredibly graphic but users are hardly ever serious about it, it's usually all in good fun. A lick on the cheek in public though will raise some brows and most people will most likely view it was a 'sexual' action instead of a 'friendly' one. As for me, I'd keep an open mind about it and resist rushing to conclusions.

My question to you though is why you feel as though your fiance is hiding something from you? I'd say be blunt with her and talk to her about it. Just remember though that we all have our secrets and demons which we don't want to show so tread lightly. 

Let me just make this short and sweet.

If she honestly considers that a "friendly gesture" and not crossing the line, she's definitely not ready for a marriage.

Wait, why am I pointing that out first?

ANYONE who's engaged should be OBLIGATED to only have feelings for one person. She doesn't deserve a relationship at all.

You said she's your fiance, right?

And she likes someone that ISN'T you as "more than a friend"?

What a shitty human being.

Dump that slutbag. Please.

I hate to double post here, but I read over that a second time and I just need to stress that my jaw hit the fucking floor when I read it the first time and this is faaaar from okay.

Take my advice.

You deserve better.

I mean, there's only so many ways I can say that this is completely unacceptable, so I'll just leave it at that.

Do the right thing, bro. I'm trying to make you happy, and trust me, I'm 100% sure I'm right about this.

I know she has "Cyber/Sexed" with this guy in the past, which caused our relationship to fallout within the past four years. Some people say it's a friendly gesture... but why does she need to hide it from me, if it truly is just "Friendly"

@Rocky Yeah, I found it highly disrespectful. I felt my heart sink into my gut when I saw it in the chat log. I suppose it would be best to end it if will only end up leading her towards Cybering the guy again...

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Being overly affectionate as a friend is usually seen as endearing and funny so don't think much about it.  You should only get worried if she happens to expose herself on camera.

I wouldn't want to start to overreact yet, unless she starts to expose herself.

Well I poked through her facebook and found she is literally not doing anything about him "Nibbling on her breasts" so... yeah. I'm done with this crap. Thank you guys.