It's funny...I hate love, yet want it so badly...maybe it's because I've never had a girl actually love me? In any case, I don't know if i ever will find love, but it probably wont be any time soon...if ever...
You'll come to find there'll be quite a few 'interested' girls if you know what to look for. But if you entrap yourself in the mindset that love simply cannot happen to you (as I have for quite some time), you're infinitely less likely to notice.