Always thought being IN one is better. But it still just feels great to see someone else just as happy. Makes me wanna strangle someone when they are in an abusive relationship, though.
Thanks man-yeah, 17 years and counting for us. I've counseled a few friends who had abuse problems-every one of the men who were physically abusive to their wives/girlfriends were sniveling cowards when faced with someone bigger and stronger than themselves. Made me want to break their faces.