Okay... Since I'm either just "lurking" or spreading gloom... A) I take a break from the forums. I leave. C) I pretend to be in a good mood and force myself to be more active again.
Then you can contact me via email - just ask, and I'll give it to you. A few months away is a long time, but if you want to talk during that time, my offer stands.
As long as t's the forum you need a break from, then A. I am a bit nervous about that answer though, as I'm finding the forums *less* gloomy than the people I deal with in real life right now. And I don't like giving advice that I wouldn't want to follow myself. :/