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Thuja

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  1. I know but I'm scared to talk to them I tend to lie when I'm in tense situations like meeting with doctor or something like that. I tell the that ok I do everything you said and then I really do nothing

    You can't get the help you need by lying about your own status, you need to tell them the truth.  I know it's hard to do, Creator knows I've done it many times myself.  Take that first step and be brave.  It's hard to keep up with the advice your doctor might give you but it's for your own good.  By ignoring your problems or otherwise tossing them aside, you harm yourself in doing so.

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  2. Because I'm weirdo and my own problems are too big for me to handle on my own that is why I've given up on them and I use my resources helping others so they wouldn't have to suffer like me.

     

    I have this anxiety eating problems back issues. and depression. I can't handle them on my own I need support that I don't get from people around me and I gave up on them 

    Everyone's a little weird, there's nothing wrong with that.  Don't give up on yourself, never give up on yourself.  Reach out for help, a school counselor or a parent.  You need to speak to people about your problems, else you're just going to get stuck in a hole you've dug for yourself.  These are issues that shouldn't be left on their own.  

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  3. I don't really consider myself because my life sucks my health is bad and I have mental and social problems interacting with people. I only consider myself when other people praise me but only for little time. And I know I can't please everyone but it isn't that easy to just step out of it when I've lived my entire life like this.

     

    I'm weak and I have accepted it I don't see reason why I should improve myself when I can work that time helping others which is far more important than my own well being. I know it shouldn't be like that but I can't change it by just like that

     

    I have denied all my interests and suppressed them too because I don't want to be interested in something that other people hate. But here I've been improving a little because of this community I can share my interest on ponies. If I was alone i would quit ponies maybe like everything else i did quit.

    By not improving yourself, you remain stagnant and that isn't healthy.  Everyone has problems yet they seem to be able to manage, I'm sure you're capable of doing so too.  You're not a weak person, you only set yourself back with that talk.  Your own well being is important too, how can you care for others if you let yourself remain weak?  I highly doubt you're as weak as you say you are.  These things take time and practice, be patient with yourself.  Go by the beat of your own drum, don't let people dictate what beat you play.  

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  4. Here I had all this stuff to say but instead my mind feels as though it were rolling around in the mud.  Anyways, you need to look inward more often and consider yourself and your own happiness for once instead of trying to appeal to everyone else.  

     

    I can't claim to be all knowing on this subject but nobody is going to be perfect, they're going to have their ups and downs and sometimes you need to leave people to sort out their own issues.  You're spreading yourself thin at the expense of trying to make others happy and that just makes you feel like this because you're ignoring your own wants.  I'm not saying that you should completely ignore the happiness of others, just try to consider yourself once in a while.  You're not going to be able to please everyone and you just need to accept that.

     

    If you can't take the criticism of others, how will you become a stronger person?  Yeah I know, it hurts sometimes to receive negative feedback but sometimes that might be needed in order to improve as a person, getting up from the rut in the road and moving on.  Some people don't intend to insult you when they criticize you.  Though when you say criticism, I'm not quite sure what you're talking about specifically, so forgive me if I'm assuming too much.

     

    Nothing's wrong with being alone, sometimes it gives the mind a breather and gives you time to contemplate.  There's nothing wrong with enjoying something on your own, even if someone else may not like it.  Some people hate bronies, but here you are on a brony website, nothing wrong with that.  Just because someone else is interested in something doesn't mean you have to be.  I might say, "Well I enjoy playing skyrim," does that mean you have to be interested in it too?  Absolutely not, you may not like that game in particular, don't force yourself to like it just because I do, you know?  Though again, I may be assuming too much and for that I apologize if I offend you.

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  5. I barely know you but I hope you have a good time with clearing your head.  Depression can be a difficult thing for most people to manage and I wish you well on getting more control over it.  Taking those first steps on re-evaluating yourself can sometimes be a bit disorientating but there's a bunch of good people on here that want to help you, should you need it.  Best of luck!

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