When I was younger, I suppressed any feelings I might have towards other people. Don't know why I did that. So I've never really given my sexuality any thought until recently. So nowadays, I feel pretty confused for the most part. For a while I thought I was a lesbian because of this one girl, but then I realized I was transgender so that got scratched off the table. These days, I tend to think just because I find someone attractive means I'm (insert random sexual orientation here) which makes me even more confused. All I can say is, don't get hung up on labels, it'll only mess you up. Just because you like yaoi doesn't mean you're gay or bi for that matter. A straight guy can enjoy gay porn and still be straight. There are so many labels out there, trying to tie yourself to a few can only make things harder to figure out for you.