It’s a double edged sword. I tell myself it’s me that’s too particular but my success rate sucks when I do consider someone. It’s a lot of things. Ultimately there’s one thing I know I can do that will make a very big difference, and it’s nothing most people would even think about. It’s about values.... I can’t just change my values just to have someone.. I have to change for the sake of those values, and then I might have a chance. I’m stuck though. I could just be more attractive in helping finding someone. I think that sucks too.
edit, my values are mostly fine IMO, but one thing at least isn’t that has to change