Sir Hugsalot

I am ready even right now to read : D

YES!!! 

And I will keep an eye on You to really make sure none of us are falling behind 

9 hours ago, ZiggWheelsManning said:

Squished an insect traveling close next to you  

DUN HURT INSECTS D: They did nothing wrong ;-;

6 hours ago, Props ValRoa said:

@Sir Hugsalot

While I know not much about you, from our previous interactions of my memory - you are kind and thoughtful. Maybe I didn't make the best of effort to get to know you in the past, but we can always resume again if you'd like. I wish you well. 

Doing my best  The world can be really dark and I would much like to make it at least a bit brighter by me existing in it. And I am always all for it 

4 hours ago, TheRockARooster said:

@Sir Hugsalot

Thank you so much for your kind words Sir, my friend.

I look forward to seeing more of you on the forums and it's lovely to see you on the forums more nowadays after everything.

Well, now I definitely need to be more active *hug* :3 

4 hours ago, Astral Soul said:

Now, you are the third who calls me an inspiration :> Thank you!

I really nothing special. I just love the show and like talking about them. I also like nice and people I can spend time with. 

Thank you, even if Im relatively new to FiM, but I know the show.

Yeah, kindness is rather important to me. Also I like to mention here that human concepts like kindness do not exist in nature by themselves. The only exist when we put them into the world and live by them. That's all what I do, but Im happy people liking it and living them as well. 

You guys also helped me with your presence, especially in the last four weeks.

So the feeling is mutual :>

And here comes Your humbleness. You are special, Astral in how You capture spirit of the show with Your attitude. 

We are growing together, my friend and it's such an honor to live this life with a fine company like Yours... ;-; <3 

2 hours ago, Silky said:

NOT IF I SQUISH YOU FIRST!!!!! 

I SQUISH YOU FIRST!

*squishes*

1 minute ago, Silky said:

oh no, he's doing the squishes! That's illegal without @strongwilled_pegasusD:

Get over here @strongwilled_pegasusand prepare to be squished!! D: 

And here are lots of smaller ones >:3

*decisively squishes everypony reading this comment, many times over* <3 

I vote for star bearer, because that's exactly the kind of epicness I would go for myself 

Sophie, I understand. I always will be happy to offer my ears, but at the same time I am respectful about how You feel about how You feel for Your issues - I just want You to know that You don't have to be alone with those thoughts 

I also have tendency of putting myself down so I can imagine how it can make a person feel. Before I was desperately pursuing people to hear me out, but now? I suppose I am guilty of the same crime 

Just know You're an amazing pony (or platypus), we all adore You and wish You best <3

*hugs* <3 

5 hours ago, Wingnut said:

Hi Sir Hugoholic!  Sorry I’m a bit late replying to your blog.  I don’t know what exactly prompted you to write this.  But I can say that as we go through the journey called life, we’re going to hurt a few people we care about along the way.  It’s an inevitable part of the human condition.  Whatever happened, you’re doing everything you can to make it right.  
 

I want to take a moment to say this forum has been a special place for me too. I’ll grant you it’s not 2014 anymore and most of those members we greatly admired are no longer here. I have sometimes disappeared for extended periods myself.  Anyway, during my time here, a few members have truly touched my heart.  Believe it or not, Adrian, you’re one of them.  If you ever want someone to talk to, you’re always welcome to give me a holler.    

I am humbled and if You would like to talk I am always open for that too. 2014 was amazing year honestly and I wouldn't be honest if I said I did not miss it. Magical Mare, the lovely user who responded to You - she's an amazing person too. I find it sad You never got to met her, because she's truly one of a kind with heart of pure gold. Unfortunately she got pulled away from forums before making herself comfortable here, a mistake, which obviously has been avoided this time 

Honestly, even I returned now because of her. I buried my feelings deep within me and did not even realize how much I allowed myself to lose. It's no exaggeration, I owe her my life. 

@Silk Glamour I've said it before and I will say it again - You're the best pony and there are no words to express how much You mean to me...

I remember this one! I loved it so much when You've shown it to me before 

15 hours ago, -Solstice- said:

@Sir Hugoholic

I don’t know you nor have I met you but I have made similar mistakes. Time heals most things in life, everyone makes mistakes along the way. It’s nothing to look down on yourself for.

Actually You do and You're one of people that I basically vanished in front of. And I agree - I should not think less of myself for mistakes I've done, but still it's something I really had to let out from my system 

15 hours ago, Pandora said:

People make mistakes such is the way of life- I too have made mine but that’s what makes us human 

just do your best to enjoy your time here 

Thank You ;-; I will ^^

5 hours ago, Samurai Equine said:

(Passes through)

Hi there. 

I can't bring back those that are gone, but I invite you to join me at the top of the summit of Yggdrasil. I'll be waiting.

 

...

 

...Or, you know, you could just follow me or DM me if you ever want to be friend or something. S'up to you. 
Later!

Which Yggdrasil? I know a few of these  

And sure, I can shoot a DM later :) 

17 hours ago, Silk Glamour said:

*Squees and happy dance* !! 

So happy to know you're staying, Sir Hugoholic! @AuroraGlimmermentioned how she rarely saw you around anymore and it made us really really sad to see you go 
But this is amazing news and I will always cherish the memories we've shared both on forums and out of them. You rock! 

Silky, stop melting my heart, seriously... did she really? Gosh, You guys...

I am so happy to be around with all of You... 

When I saw "bands" I thought it is that spambot again xD 

And boy, thanks for nostalgia boost with "what is love?"

No Spike in the newest season?! Omg, show is ruined, it is Your fault, Donald Trump, why You laughing Hillary, Your fault too. Mesmerize, shame on You, You definitely blackmailed Hasbro not to include my beloved spike in the show, now I have to boycott all the MLP related stuff! D: 

Ok, I overdid it XD I am with You on this, Mesme Rize, this kind of complaining is cancer to every fandom. I am glad to see You getting support on Your statement.

"Git gud" instantly reminded me of Dark Souls XD 

Looks like steam sales were so good entire platform went down XD 

First of all - facebook reeks with stupidity. Every day I am there I see at least one person so stupid I feel turmoil growing in my brain. I won't even start with trolls, even I am in the facebook group where there are many unfunny trolls attempting to derail everything they don't like. 

Now that it was clarified - time to have fun with amazing logic of first commenter: yes, foxes kill chicken, they are also likely to kill other animals. But... who else does it? People. Now by that logic why won't we enforce euthanasia on every person who is in the hospital? After all 1 human = many dead animals and where fox does it for survival some people kill for entertainment alone. 

Hunting foxes as a thing though... it's complicated. In Poland we have currently issues with fox population which increased due to the fact people started curing their diseases which kept their population in check in the past. Now there are more and more foxes and they all need to eat. That led to reduction of population of other animals and not just chickens. I may hate hunting, especially the way it's often done in Poland, but something must be done in order to fix the problem. Otherwise both foxes and other animals will have real survival problem. In my opinion foxes should be just left alone. Other animals too while at it. Diseases are nature's way of population control and now that people tried to tamper with it they've only created new problem in my coutry.

And tbh... I am pretty sure all of them are trolls. They should be glad I label them as such, because otherwise they are idiots and hypocrites. 

Don't concentrate Your life on a bully. He is not worth it and there are so many better things to do than showing or proving him anything. Believe me, it is not worth Your time

I still say You need a Fedex badge on forum. 

Being transgender isn't a decision. You also use the word "transgenders" when I specify in this entry not to use that word because you make us sound like a species, also it being grammatically incorrect. Cis people oppress trans people, if other trans people dislike/hate cis people for experiences they go through it's not in your place to say what's right or what's wrong. Just because EVERY cis person doesn't do it it still doesn't make you any less guilty. Especially if you're too scared to stand up for trans people, you're really out of your place to say what's good or what's not. Stop saying cisphobia exists! It doesn't. There's no oppression against cis people-- did you even bother to read the whole entry, I'm just curious at this point.

 

If you honestly think cisphobia exists you and I should probably stop having this discussion. Because if you still are on that situation, you'll never understand other things having to do with sociology and understanding oppression vs. prejudice. 

I already stated it is not a decision.

Yes, I do, because my words refer to transgender people, not to cisgender people. How else am I supposed to call them... 

And sorry, but no, I am not guilty of that. I never offended anyone, I support my friend who has it same as You and did it openly. Does that make me guilty of what random dick does to LGBT community? Don't blame a person of something the person hasn't done. Ever. Because right now You actually offended me. 

I did not read carefully regarding cisphobia in Your post, my fault. 

And for future - it is hard for others to understand things when instead of getting explanations they get judged. Just think about those words. 

First I forgot to add - I live in Poland and my country still is far from western world. Hatred towards homosexuals etc here is greater than in for example USA, not to mention places like The Netherlands where it slowly becomes a tiny part of country and soon will probably be gone for good. Sadly - it too affects my perspective, because as much as I never accept views of my nation regarding those matters I have it harder to get proper informations regarding LGBT people.

Now...

Thanks for clarifying, now it looks better. But I still have few words to show how all it looks from perspective of friend of such people: You are right to say that those are not clothes what define us unless we decide otherwise. Problem is - when seeing random person on a street it is impossible to guess if the person is transgender or not in some cases. That's where apologize might be necesarry, but it seems we agreed on that. 

Of course I don't yell at anyone like that. In fact I am too shy to even approach strangers for other reasons than "how can I get to X" so even if I wanted I'd still be unable to do that XD 

It can be a true pain, I agree. But sometimes it is necesarry to look at problem from perspective of that person. I for example am always overly scared about offending people, making them angry due to events from my past. It reached the point I attend a therapy myself. Sometimes that fear is hard to control for me and then I too might apologize... a lot. I never do it to make myself look clean, if anything I always am the first to admit making a mistake if I did one. 

That's bullshit. If you think it's hard not misgendering someone, try being transgender yourself and see if you'd complain then. 

 

Here I will be stubborn - whole gender change thing works in two ways. I have to respect, for example Your decision. But You have to get patience to tolerate Your friends misgendering You first. It's uneasy thing to change for us too. Of course difference is when someone does it on purpose. Then it's best to kindly block person or do whatever else to avoid contact. And sadly it's not that easy.

One can't "become" transgender, because he/she wants to. You either are different gender inside despite Your biological appearance or not. The fact that I for example can't suddenly switch my gender already says a lot. 

You also shouldn't compare that transphobia and getting hated on for misgendering someone as being equally ridiculous. People are actually tortured, raped, murdered, etc. for being transgender, not for misgendering someone. I assure you, the short time of hatred we feel for you is nothing beyond comparison of what we go through. If a person is mad at you, they're mad for a reason. We just don't go around yelling at people for no reason, then that'd be a different story, but in this case our feelings are valid and should be treated as such.

 

But what's the point for hating ALL the people who are not transgenders? Not all people offend, rape etc transgenders. I'd never do that. It's like hating random German for holocaust or random Russian for Ukrainian crisis. Hate solves nothing and if anyone should be blamed - people who really hurted transgenders should be. By hating everyone transgenders can only make more people despise them. Sadly being mad for example on me, because someone else who is cisgender killed transgender is not a legitimate reason. I am all against stereotypes so I will never support cisphobia in any way. Even more, I put it in same closet as homophobia or transphobia. 

I'd put people who hurt You because You're transgenders to prison myself. I'd ensure they rot in prison cell for their lifetime. But transgender people should really think deeply if by cisphobia they aren't slowly walking same extreme path. 

Like I said - Your reply clarified the matter a bit, but if You want to discuss stuff further we can for sure move to PMs. 

I recommend being calmer in giving all those advices, because Your post might only scare people away from You.

I know it can be a true pain when someone acts like a dick towards You, but best way to get people to support You is explaining things calmly and kindly. It especially applies to part #4. I have to admit I tend to misgender and I don't like the way You referred to it.

I understand sometimes people who are very conscious of how others think of them may be prone to over-apologize when using the incorrect name/pronouns when referring to someone, but keep in mind we hate you more when you make yourself look like you're the innocent one

 

Hating for such mistake is pretty pointless, don't You think? If someone apologized then who cares about it? You too have to understand that for some people it is hard to suddenly call You out with different gender when they knew You for years as guy/girl. It's not as easy as it might sound to You. It is hard for me even. When I see my transgender FTM friend with his profile picture in extremely girly outfit with makeup etc it is hard for me to refer to him as "he". Am I evil for that? Shold I get instahate when I mistakely call him "she"? I don't think so. Also, he doesn't think so neither (yes, he saw Your blog and cringed a bit, sorry).

And since when apologizing is "trying to look innocent"? 

If someone apologized that person clearly regrets it - hating someone for regretting mistake is as stupid as hating someone for being transgender. 

By all means I am not against what You wrote here, but please, use different words. The ones You've used just shout for needless conflict. 

Good luck. Focus on school ... we will be here when you return. Hugs will at least. He owes me a life debt. 

Liez, I owe him nothing! D:

*hugs* nooo D: I will miss You even if we just started talking D: Good luck D: 

I agree, making someone smile is always a great thing to do and every time I do it I derive happiness from it myself. 

So many people want a change. But every change must begin in them, not in others.