iceestarz

Right now they have an apartment together and are stuck in a one year lease. My parents have already told her that it would be best to put off the wedding for a couple years and really think hard about if she wants to go through with marrying him. He's a good guy, he just hangs around a bunch of childish dudes who influence him negatively. He's not gonna change for the better until he ditches his friends and gets better ones.

Personally, if he's a good person who just hangs out with bad friends, it's probably best to at least try to convince him to seek better friends out because if they're bad enough that she does not feel comfortable being around them, than perhaps it's time for her to move on from him as marriges are essentially you and your chosen spouse signing off to stay with each other for at least a considerable amount of time so yea, she needs to think hard about it if she really could se...

see herself staying with him all those years happily.