I don't enjoy when i'm force to put one of them under the bus. I may not like my father that much but he is still my father, I respect him that much, and then there's my brother, whom is the only one who hangs out with me.
Well you don't have to put one under the bus lol. If one is right and the other isn't thats just the facts..you could always just remove yourself from the argument entirely i guess.