Justin_Case001

Hmm.  Curious.  Mind if I ask why you reached out to me in particular?  Well, at any rate, this seems to me to be a pretty open and shut case.  Seems like you made a solid argument in your OP, and I tend to agree.  The variable that determines bestiality is sapience.  If a lifeform is intelligent and sapient, and can therefore consent, then it's not bestiality--just a natural sexual relationship.  I wasn't familiar with the term "xenophilia", so I looked it up.  "An attraction to foreign peoples, cultures, or customs."  Cool.  So, then I would say commingling of any different species would technically count as xenophilia.  On a finer-grained level, on Earth, attraction to people of different ethnicities and skin colors would be xenophilia.  Perhaps one day if we expand out into the universe, humanity will be united enough that any attraction within the human species won't be considered foreign, and only commingling with non-human will be considered xenophilia. 

Incidentally, I guess I would classify as a big ol' xenophile.  I tend to be attracted to people quite different from me.  I'm a white male (pretty boring if you ask me), and I've always been most attracted to women of other ethnicities: black, asian, latino, etc.  In sci-fi and fantasy, I'm always most attracted to the non-humans.  In Star Trek, for instance, I go for the Klingons, Romulans, Cardassians, Vulcans, etc.  Pretty much any non-human race except Ferengi.    In LOTR, I go for the elves.  In Elder Scrolls, I go for the Khajiit and Argonians.

Well, anyway, that was probably more information that you wanted, but it was a fun conversation.

Oh yes, and I love the AVGN!