WiponCat

I don't think enough people feel the need for a goodbye message to merit an entire forum about it.

well I think the forum should know why people are leaving so that maybe, they'll take it as critisism and try to better themselves

Well, most people leave forums because they gradually post less and less, then stop even visiting the site at all. Only rarely is it a big deal that someone is leaving, like if their parents are being bitchy about it, or they have some major, life changing event.