What matters the most is if you are able to make an impact on yourself . Feel great about what you have done for yourself and others. Even though others may not notice what you do for them, you can be greatful towards yourself that at least you were the one that cared .
I don't value myself. I'm the reflection of abuse dealt by many. Ignored and neglected, beyond anyone's lifestyle. I can't expect you to understand how that feels, and what my ways of thinking are.