But if I do that, then they'll put me in a mental institution. (Also, this a response to your suggestion of posting in life advice... I'd love to, but I don't wanna get in trouble, because the last time I posted there, my post got locked.)
Maybe you do need help. They won't necessarily do that every time. I understand that it hurts, but sometimes to heal a wound, you have to disinfect, or go in and fix it, which can be painful. Just try. If you don't like it, you can just stop it any time.