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JonasDarkmane

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  1. It's happened many times before. So I'm not sure I can trust you so easily. The only attention I get is mostly negative. Like I could post all happy stuff and be ignored, but when I post honest feelings about myself, I get a keyboard warrior with a head the size of a melon, in respect. I just don't follow trends or popularity status's, that's why I'm looked down upon. I bet if I made a blog right now about how I feel, it will get ignored or ganged with hatred.

    Well, those who do bash you do not really have any reason to do so. If they are doing it because of popularity status's then I am quite irritated. I do not like it when people like something only because it is popular and I certainly do not like it when other people who don't like something popular get bashed. If there is something you want to talk about, you can talk to me (if you want to talk about it that is to say). 

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  2. You are correct I don't help people who try to insult other ponies and make them feel bad. but if they regret their actions I will give them always a chance. I don't know why I do it .

     

    And I don't think its correct that you choose between people who to help. I can't put people in any order and I want help everyone that I can help.

    Choosing between someone who needs help and someone who does not is pretty important. If you choose the one who needs the help then you are helping. If you choose the other, you are not really helping since the other one does not need it. He can handle himself. 

     

     

    Trust me, people do care for you on here. I wished I had that kind of attention but whenever I post anything how I feel, I usually just get insulted. Every status update I see you post, I see many responses. When I do that, even if it's supposed to be funny, I get nothing. People do seem to be attracted to you. I've made plenty of enemies on here because I retaliate and I'm defensive, but I have my reasons. Being hated on is something I have experience with, total strangers have bad things to say to me all the time. There's a difference between being too kind and being too honest. I would rather have the truth than a sugar-coated lie. If someone doesn't like me, I would rather them tell me then just pretend to be a friend. That is why I push people away, it's happened so many times, so many lying friends I've dealt with. If you aren't compatible with someone, there's no reason to keep a friendship maintained. Some aren't just meant to be and you can't help everyone since you have to put yourself first over others in order to help them. I've been in therapy (as a patient) for years, because of the cruel experience I've had. I wasn't made this way, it's because of isolated-lonely-oscillation-seclusion. Not that a soul cares about what I say and I'll probably be bashed for posting this.

    Trust me, this post you just posted just can't be bashed. If anyone does, they will have to deal with me (and if anyone does, then I will assume that it is someone who is hunting you and is not giving this blog the attention it deserves (forgive my lame English, not my native language)). 

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  3. Closest friends are something I don't have I want everyone to be equal in my books or atleast try and not raising anyone higher than other because everyone deserves help if they need it.

    You have said it your self. Everyone deserves help if they need it. I doubt everybody need it. So you should give yourself some slack  :)

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  4. Because I'm weirdo and my own problems are too big for me to handle on my own that is why I've given up on them and I use my resources helping others so they wouldn't have to suffer like me.

     

    I have this anxiety eating problems back issues. and depression. I can't handle them on my own I need support that I don't get from people around me and I gave up on them 

    This is kinda harsh (not towards you but to some of the people you are trying to help) but you should not help those who don't need help. If people are dictating what you do, you are not really helping them by giving in. You are doing the exact opposite. If they are forcing you to do something you don't want to do then they themselves are not going to improve their own personality if you go through with it and they will keep on hurting other people. 

     

    Help only those who really need it (or who deserve it). That is far easier and much more fair. You wouldn't give billionaire 5 dollars if you could give it to someone who is poor. It is far easier to live like that because you're not doing anything wrong. In fact you are doing the right thing. 

     

    You have not given in. If you had, you would not be commenting here. The fact that you are posting how you feel is proof enough that you have not given up and that you still have hope. 

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  5. I don't really consider myself because my life sucks my health is bad and I have mental and social problems interacting with people. I only consider myself when other people praise me but only for little time. And I know I can't please everyone but it isn't that easy to just step out of it when I've lived my entire life like this.

     

    I'm weak and I have accepted it I don't see reason why I should improve myself when I can work that time helping others which is far more important than my own well being. I know it shouldn't be like that but I can't change it by just like that

     

    I have denied all my interests and suppressed them too because I don't want to be interested in something that other people hate. But here I've been improving a little because of this community I can share my interest on ponies. If I was alone i would quit ponies maybe like everything else i did quit.

     

    By not improving your self you are not helping people. It is by improving your self you can help people. When you improve your self, you are able to help more people and deal with more and new problems. If you don't improve your self, you won't be able to help others.

     

    Example: A man hurts his leg. A medic comes and helps him with his leg because he knows to fix legs (my English is not perfect. Sorry to anyone who is reading this). Then a man hurts his head. The medic can not help the man because he only knows how to fix legs. He has not improved his skills. 

     

    By denying your own interests and suppressing them you are only hurting your self and sometimes when people hurt them selves, other people get hurt as well. Your happiness is important to us here on mlpforums. We are here for you 

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  6. I end up doing things that I don't want to do because of others tell me to do it. I'm just a total pushover .

     

    And I know that I will hurt people thats why I never voice my opinions and deny their existense because I feel im hurting people even if I think bad about them. And it is the reason I don't talk to people and my anxiety isn't helping it. 

     

    I feel that I'm a tool. When I was in earlier grades people always came over me and copied the answers on me and their homework tooo i was just used . I even trusted criminals and gave my info on them and then they charged money from me and used me .

     

    I seriously have no life 

     

    With the criminal thing. That is pretty serious. You should either let your parents know or the police. But that is your choice. 

     

    If you do not voice your own opinion, you are just hurting your self and by not voicing your own opinion you might be hurting the person (not intentionally, remember what I said. People will get hurt over anything). Perhaps your opinion could help a person. 

     

    By denying your opinions existence, you are basically denying your own existence. Our opinions are what define us as human beings. That is what makes us human. We are all different. 

     

    Trying to please everyone will not really help, given what I have heard how you are treated by others. I once tried to help everyone. Got beaten pretty badly down by the world. Now I feel like I don't owe the world a thing. I only help those who deserve help and really need it. But that is just me. 

     

    There are ways of course that you can please your self without hurting others. You can deny other people, asking you to do stuff that you don't want to do. It really does not hurt people (unless it is something very personal). 

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  7. You are nice and kind. When I read this I get the feeling that you are a very careful person. That you try your best to not to hurt other people. However, that can not really be avoided. People are always hurt, be it big things or small things, even when it is not your fault. Making a decision can be hard, however, if you want to do the other thing, then do it. If you are afraid that it might hurt the other person, then do what the other person wanted. If you think that would hurt the other "other" person then you should suggest something else. Something that would make everyone happy. 

     

    By devoting your self by being so nice and helpful is good and all, but if it is getting in the way of making you happy, if it is making things difficult, then you should try to give some slack. You can not please everybody, no matter how hard you try. If you can recall the episode "Too many Pinkies" where Pinkie did not want to have to choose between her friends. You might want to watch that episode again. And all the other stuff I have said is from experience. I have had to face tough challenges. 

     

    You remind me kid I knew back when I was in Middle School (I knew him from 7th to 10th grade). He was very different from everybody else. Had different hobbies and interests. Wanted to please everybody. He got bullied very often (ok more then often, all the time). It was very painful to watch someone who was always just trying to please everybody getting so bullied. Got me mad, so I started defending him. Anybody who wanted to mess with him had to go through me. Sadly, I feel I failed, however. Our last year in Middle-School (10th grade) was perhaps the toughest for him. Did not show up at graduation. What I am trying to say here, be careful. I would not want the same thing, happening to you as happened to him. 

     

    I hope I am being helpful here. 

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  8. IRL I often feel really lonely as I have a hard time interacting with other people. People are often talking about things that I don't know anything about and they have other kind of interests. I'm really tired of that since I just want to be able to talk to people like a normal person.  :(

     

    One reason why I love MLP:FiM so much since it is the kind of perfect world were people would want to live because it is so unlike the bitterness of the real world. However how I dealt with depression was trying to talk to some people at school and I managed to make a best friend (I only managed to make 1 good friend that I am still in contact with and that isn't really a great success however I do consider it better then nothing). I still find it really hard to talk to people, however I'm starting to get there. But I am only able to talk to people as long as I know what people are talking about.  :okiedokielokie:

     

    I think your depressed because you wish for interactions with a real human being. You kinda are when your here by talking to us but you don't really meet any of us face to face and you really wish to have that kind of a relationship where you can be talking straight to someone you can call a friend.  :o

     

    If you really want that kind of a relationship you should try to make a new friend (perhaps at school or someplace else) but know this, we are always here for you. Don't let depression control you.  :D

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