碇 シンジン

I talked with my dad and I realized that I'm too kind to other people. It is gone to the point where it is interfering me and my emotional growth. I am growing leaning towards other people and I construct my own self image based on my experiences with them and based on how I feel with them. I cant make my own decisions I always think what is best for other people. I don't think I have willpower anymore. I don't know how I can fix this situation.