I think the fact that there are psychologists out there, who encourage people that they are a different race and gender, eventhough they aren't from a scientific standpoint, is incredibly dangerous and damages the reputation of all the other psychologists out there.
It would be of good advice to start to ask, why they feel this way? It might be because of something that happend of something that happend and that is causing this trauma. Our mind is very complicated and makes us do things we would've never considered 10 years ago.