Cool down, bro. I never got messages, like you described. Even on other (non pony) forums I'm participating in conflicts extremely rare.
Anyway, I think, many of us in difficult age now and could be agressive or have depressive mood sometimes.
You are really older, than most of us and I think, wiser. That's will be awesome, if you will help them overcome it.
Also, maybe, you are in difficult age now. I mean that age when you could think: "Stupid little newfags have no idea how to be a brony!".
In this case I can advise you nothing.
Just be cooler, you know.