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Sunwalker

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  1. One thing you have to understand on the internet is this, and it might sound a bit blunt. 

     

    People come on places like this, and the internet in general to either relax / chillout, have a good time or escape their issues. People are often not willing to be counsellors for other people, nor should we be. Unfortunately your issues are your issues and you are the person who has to deal with them, if you have conditions that affect the way you speak to people that you can't help then that does suck, people will often be able to emphasize with you and understand that, but again that doesn't override the first point. 

     

    Taking myself for example, when I add people to Skype or start PM's with them here, I make clear immediately that I am happy to be most peoples friends as long as there is no needless drama, the conversation doesn't cause me stress or make me uncomfortable. If a person carries on doing that then I will remove them regardless of any conditions they may have, having asperger's is not a reason for people to keep you as a friend. 

     

    @@Jest (Inactive), this is just so insensitive. One knows the true character of someone when he does good even though there are nothing obliging him to do so. Anyone is capable of loving easy going people, even the incompetent and the idiot are capable of doing so. To be capable of loving a difficult person, when there are nothing forcing you to do so, that is what will set you apart from mediocrity and make you virtuous. That is the Christian definition of love you asked me another day. But you don't believe in objective morals, right? That explain a lot about your attitude.

     

    You think it is OK to discard someone for having Aspergers? And yet you want to lecture me on love. Just don't complain when people abandon you for whatever reason. I will not be the one to do so, however, I will always be open for forgiveness. You unfairly accused me of causing drama, when I was polite all the time, and you didn't accept my apology for whatever misunderstanding it might have happened, you refused the olive branch. You walked away as if I were nothing. But even then I forgive you will and I will not abandon you, be always there for you if you ever happen to need help. Because, you know, that is what actually means to love.

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