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  1. Shimmer Sparkle
    This past week was painful but also a bit relaxing. On Sunday, I was in pain all day because my stomach hurt really bad and I couldn't relax because of the pain. Later in the evening I told my mom I felt like I needed to go to the hospital. When we got there, we had to wait a few hours before they got us a room at some time at night. I forget what time but I was relieved to have a place to rest. After I told the nurses where the pain was, they did some tests on me. They concluded that I had gallstones. They gave me the option to give me medicine for the pain and send me home, or remove my gallbladder. The nurses told me the pros and cons of the two options and I ended up choosing the surgery. The surgery was on Tuesday in the morning. When they woke me up my head was twitching due to the effects of the anesthesia but when my sister came in to see me, I calmed down and the twitching stopped because I started talking to her.
     
    The rest of day I felt okay but I felt a harsh pain the next day when I tried to walk. I felt pain and hopelessness the rest o the day. The nurses gave me pain medicine and that helped a little bit. But I slept great and I felt better early the next morning. They gave me more pain meds and they also gave a normal diet. I seemed and felt a lot better. They said I was ready for discharge and I left the hospital at noon. Now that I'm at home, I feel okay. I still need help to stand up and sit down but I can walk just fine. I hope to be well soon.
     
    I love you all and you're all special to me and give me hope. You are not friends, you are family and thank you for all your support.
  2. Shimmer Sparkle
    Today was such a fantastic day. It started out rough but in the afternoon it was great. I told my dad that I needed to speak to him alone. We went to go get something to eat. On the way, I told him I trusted him enough for me to tell him this. I told my dad I decided to tell him and not my mom because he is much more understanding.
     
    I told him I wanted to talk to him about an important topic: asexuality. I explained to him what it was and the concept behind it. I even told him how and when I found out I was asexual. We talked a little while about our differences in beliefs and he told me he accepted me for who I am regardless of that. He told he was willing to be open-minded about this. I then proceeded to tell him I was dating someone who is transgender. He didn't react badly when I said that, treating like something normal. It didn't surprise me though. (I didn't want to go into that we met on the forums and that I'm a brony. All I said was that was "another story".) We both agreed this has strengthened the relationship between us both. We also agreed my mom should never know.
     
    Overall, I expected this to go great. My dad may be religious but he's also open-minded, unlike my mom. I'm really happy I finally have that off my chest. It's such a wonderful feeling!
  3. Shimmer Sparkle
    I finally made the decision... the decision to come out to my parents as asexual and tell them who I'm dating. I just don't know how to tell them. I'm scared how they'll react. I'm scared they'll hate me for being who I am. But I'm confident that I made the right decision.
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