Miss

I'm very extroverted, just don't feel like getting involved with this person.

And the use of "zer" is to not assume one's gender and in my case it is to reveal it. 

We uh... we english speakers have a word for that y'know...

it's called 'their'

It's what's known as a gender neutral term.... because it's not masculine or feminine

well in my defense i say, that i thought you were joking..

so i gave you a fun-way reply.

but if you seriously asking for advice, so of course not. and of course it is for you to decide whether or not asking zer for a date or sth.

if you want to know what i would do, i would go) cuz it's funny) and meeting awkward people for an awkward reasons is very memorable. something worth telling your grandchildren about)) /)