Misty Shimmer

Did something happen to you?

This world is a wonderful place, however, the actions of some people can go a long way to convince us otherwise, one thing I believe guys always get wrong is the topic of sexual pleasure, all insisting that it is perfectly fine, normal, good for you and natural, I can't help but disagree, addictive, has a hand in depression, un loyal if you are in a relationship and what good is it by the way of morals? For some this mindset is not usually shown in a destructive manner but when drunk wIll come out and there are just some who are comfortable with seeing females as no more than sexual opportunities and have no respect at all, you should hear what some of the guys say when there aren't any girls around, it's disgusting.

@Autumn Wolf I don't know about that, a lot of women have it pretty easy, the steriotype of construction workers cat wistleing passing by women is something I have never come across for example nor have I seen any from of direct sexual harassment in the workplace, only sexual discussions among guys, I dare say it isn't as bad as everyone says it is, more so a few cases that have been focused on and generalised.

Most women I know do jobs in cosmetics or animal care, they are payed less for those jobs compared to a trade due to the lesser physical exertion and they nor I see any problem with it. 

@Snow

Keep in mind it can vary from place to place, nation to nation, culture to culture depending on which problems are plaguing/normal in the society. Usually poor countries have a pretty bad record for how they treat the opposite sex, as if they're nothing more than stay at home moms or sex objects. And a lot of woman are actually fine with that, you do get some who like being the stay at home moms or nothing more than a pleasure thing to make her partner happy, it's mind boggling but there are people like that.

And in regards to men talking a certain vulgar way about women, it's usually there way of blowing off steam, like how woman gossip about one another or try to dig up juicy drama about one another. And in other cases it's simply how they perceived to be excepted in their society or grouping of people. What one person does shouldn't reflect every persons actions, just treat each and every person as their unique selves and keep on living life the way you want to, life is what you make it to be.