Everything is done on your own time, you arent accountable for someone else's sensibilities or insecurities, you have independent obligations and you don't have inherent ones based on keeping another individual secure and satisfied, there's more pluses to being single for a lot of reasons, but ultimately there are some of us that are very serious about finding the RIGHT relationship, I can do solitude very well, so 3/4 of you not reacting to my posts or talking to me doesn't really bother me, I know you stalk me anyways... But there have been entire YEARS, of me literally only being in contact with family and sometimes this was only every few months...
You don't get in relationships because you're "lonely" or because "everyone else is with someone and your not" or simply because you're attracted to someone and they are nearby. You take extensive efforts to learn who someone is, you invest a lot of time building trust, forming what actually constitutes as a relationship and getting more serious about it as time progresses... Yes if there is a connection between two people it's difficult to reject it and there will be some unspoken tension to it... But you have to be patient and learn about who this person you are into truthfully is before you make the mistake of investing in someone's circumstantial feelings that were part of a series of moments, and not their true character as a whole...
You have to want to know more about someone, you have to want to see them happy, think about what you can do to accomplish this, not just think about how they aren't doing right for you, or what they do right for you, or why you love them, you ALSO have to think and consider the reasons why THEY love you, and never do anything to jeopardize that, because they hold that and you sacred and you want them to for as long as time allows if it is true love...