Here No Longer

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Here No Longer

I'm beginning to see a problem or two in this relationship of mine that needs to get fixed...~ These issues are split quite evenly between the both of us by the way. I need to communicate better (seriously, most of the little communication I do on my end is nonverbal), and he needs to be there for me more, like it borders on emotional neglect at times when he'll ignore me as much as he can when I'm legit two feet away from him...
- November 12, 2019
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1. Here No Longer
  
  So his own self-pity is more important to him than me? Good to know. If this keeps up, we just may both end up losing out... Seriously, I try to treat him as if he's more important to me than anything, and what do I get in return? A note where he calls himself "retarded" and says "I don't deserve him" while he tries to weasel away from my attempts to help him? I get emotional problems, but that just doesn't cut it for me as an explanation of this. This is legitimate emotional neglect, and it's a serious problem.
  
  Can't he just allow me to try to cheer him up?
  
  November 12, 2019
2. Fasu
  
  It's sad to hear that you're facing such problems. I hope you work through it together and things escalate to better, thats all I can wish for you.
  
  Also I'm pretty sure your boyfriend knows, however, that you care about him.
  
  November 13, 2019