No, I love kids but I don't want a kid for many reasons.
1) afraid of pregnancy. i used to work for an OB/GYN and i seen some s t u f f. pregnancy would do a lot to my body, and i take great pride in my appearance so thats a big no from me. also there is so much that can go wrong, my life would be on the line, and the babys as well. if anything were to go wrong im not sure my mental health would be able to cope & not worth the risk.
2) babies are so darn FRAGILE. again, theres so much that could go wrong. i would never let it out of my sight and that isnt good for the kid because id be so worried for their safety theyd probably never have a second to breathe away from me!
3) i could never trust anyone with my child. i see so many stories in the news, and i know people who were abused as kids... that is my biggest fear if i ever had a kid.. and if someone ever dare hurt them, i would most definitely end up in prison for beating up whoever dare harmed my child. life in prison doesnt sound fun to me, so, pass.
4) im just too immature and selfish to be able to take care of a kid long-term. this is why i told my friends that i will be more than happy to babysit their kids for the weekend or so, & take care of them, because i am much better suited to be the "wine aunt" type. i like to have fun with my life, be free, & not tied down to anyone or anything. this is a commitment i cant make, and i dont think ill ever be ready.
that said, i do have maternal insticts every so often. but, when i do, its rather in the form of ADOPTING a child. i am 100% certain i refuse to endure pregnancy. adopting an OLDER child (just no babies, again, theyre way too fragile and scare me!) that really could use a loving home sounds much more appealing and realistic to me.
ideally, i wont have kids at all - but if i had a partner that DID want them, the two options would be, either we adopt, or they have a child from a previous partner. either way, i would love them all the same.