Felix

Whenever I look ahead, I have a very hard time believing that myself..

A prediction of your future is revolved around who you are now. If you stay the same person and follow the belief you will be alone in the future you probably will be alone then. Don't do that. You change your own future by steering away from your prediction.

Incorrect. That would imply that all of us have control over everything in our lives. That is not true. The control that one has varies from person to person and I have little control. There are many things in my life, circumstances that prevent me from doing many things. Magically changing that outcome isn't really going to happen. I have that prediction not because I want to, but because that is literally the only real outcome I see and trust me, I have thought of others too.