Ugh...I'm very happy my older brother is as kind to me as he is. Growing up he was still kind. I'm sorry about your brother. Families need to learn to love each other for a family might be the only thing one has left in life.
Funny thing is he isn't my older brother! My older brother is awesome. Jon, that's his name is my younger brother and he is one on the biggest reasons why I can't wait till I move out. He makes my life and everybody else's life hell...
I'm the youngest in my family. I hope you can work out this though, family is very important. Well to me it is, growing up very traditionally I learned to cherish family. My brother is my only family now though.