)O( Scarlet )O(

Best way to go about it, is not to look for it as such, but instead be yourself, treat everyone as a friend, even a single girl who you may be interested in, have fun, talk about normal stuff, and maybe you both develop feelings for each other, if not then you still have a good friend, its a win win

Try to stay positive, be yourself and be nice to people, thats about all a guy can do ^__^

*Hugs* Hang in there buddy

*hugs* I'm also very sorry about your loss mate, in actual fact, the thought of losing either or both my parents when I was 14 was partly what triggered my depression, and I lost three loved ones myself, a week before Christmas, my dad's dad died (everyone was relieved, not just because of the fact he was really ill, but because there was bad blood about him in my family), last year was my dad's mum and in 2009, my mum's mum (who i was really close to and loved a lot)

*Hugs* Im sorry to hear that man, it's a hard road, but gotta keep trying