In my opinion, needing, wanting or asking for a bit of attention is not too bad, but like most things, should only be done in moderation. Doing it too much is a 'good' way of pushing people away.
I mean, it is perfectly natural to want attention, humankind is a species that thrives off of it. But needing it 24/7 (unless you are a child or have special needs) then that is a bad thing.
I do say and yes I know I have been guilty of being well, for lack of a better phrase, an attention seeker, and for yes, creating some drama to get it. Something I am doing my very best to change. Not just for myself, but for the good of the forums and everyone around me