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Questionarie: what you think about Long Distance Relationships?


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(questionarie) What are your views about Long Distance Relationships?  

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  1. 1. What you think about long distance relationships?

    • That doesnt even a relationship.
      1
    • I think is good but not as good as one in person.
      25
    • Is just vaild as a real meeting in person.
      14
    • I think it has more benefit than real relationship.
      0
    • I prefer long distance Relationship.
      1
  2. 2. Would you like to have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend even if he/she is very far?

    • Nah. I wanna meet him/her in person
      4
    • Maybe but i dont see the point
      3
    • Why not? i just want somepony to love
      10
    • I think it would be better if i have him/her in front of me
      14
    • Absolutely!
      10
  3. 3. you think Long Distance Relationship is the new way to find love? (multriple)

    • Definetly not, we all need to meet the person always
      3
    • Nope, i think this is just another option without much success
      3
    • It depends
      29
    • we are in 21th Century! with internet you can have anything!
      14
    • Yes, times changed and thats the only way
      1
  4. 4. You think Long Distance relationships are gonna last that much?

    • no, its just a hobby
      1
    • I think is for people who wants to hear nice things
      7
    • It has same chances than a real relationship
      31
    • In fact, they last better for many reasons
      2
    • They last more than real relationships, real relationships are not what they used to be
      0
  5. 5. How you think is better for a good relationship? (multriple)

    • Better in person than online, so we can talk later
      14
    • Am good with both ways
      24
    • First online so we can arrange a meeting
      8
  6. 6. How powerful you think is a long distance relationship?

    • i dont feel nothing, is like talking to a machine
      1
    • Meh.
      15
    • i feel loved and cared like a IRL relationship
      22
    • Actually i feel more loved than IRL relationship
      2
    • is very powerful, it has become my obsession
      1
  7. 7. what you think are the benefits of Long Distance Relationships? (multriple)

    • accesibility
      18
    • safety
      17
    • the chance to cut it out if doesnt work
      19
    • to insult in a fight without major consequenses
      1
    • privacy
      14
    • the chance to have whoever you want no matter relationship
      10
    • that you really doesnt have to proof anything to love
      4
  8. 8. What are the Cons of long Distance relationship? (Multriple)

    • Time Zones
      32
    • To not be able to phisically kiss, hug, etc
      39
    • language if you wanna talk with foreign persons
      7
    • the Culture diversity
      5
    • internet conectivity
      23
    • Problem about how often your love is online (if you think about it is not the same as the 1 and 5)
      20
    • lack of trust about posting private stuff
      16
  9. 9. How safe you think long distance relationships are?

    • not safe, there maybe something in the other monitor
      4
    • a bit good but we have to be careful
      19
    • same with normal relationships
      15
    • safe as normal relationships but better since im on my house
      2
    • safer than normal relationships cuz there's no phisical contact
      1
  10. 10. Would you do whatever it takes to see your love in person?

    • nah... this way is better
      1
    • if he/she wants to go where i am, im cool with that
      12
    • maybe... this is what open relationships are ment for right?
      8
    • ill have to meet him/her! our love must be real now!
      20


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Personally, I'm indifferent about long distance relationships.

I use to do it a few times when I was younger. Some lasted, some ended so fast that you might as well call it a fling. I'm basically done with it now. I think I'd rather try and make a relationship with someone IRL (or if it does happen online, there needs to be a high chance of us getting together in IRL, or at least visiting each other very often IRL).

I'm not as young as I use to be. I wouldn't say old (I'm in my 30's), but I've noticed in my age that long-distance relationships and online dating is more for the younger crowd than it is for people like me. But if it's something you want to do, and it's working for you, then more power to you. :proud:

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Considering I suck at meeting people face to face, I prefer online communications to start with. Gives me a nice place to start and if we're not compatible, we'll know right away before wasting a lot of time. While I'm not a fan of the downsides, like not being able to be physically together or difficulty in seeing the other person, it can still be worth it, especially for people like me.

Then again, I have a limited dating pool being transgender so online and long distance greatly increases the scope of my possible pool is always nice.

But it does suck when your current SO is on another continent entirely, as is the case with me right now. Gonna be crazy expensive to see my boyfriend but oh well. Such is life.

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They're okay. I do think it's wonderful if they work out, but that's far easier said than done.

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Just now, Xeltor said:

LDRs are largely manageable if you see each other every few weeks or something like that; but it’s best to give up if you can see each over evry 5 or 6 Months.

I can only see my BF in USA when I'm able to afford to get over to Nebraska, and when I'm 18

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  • 2 years later...

Personally it’s not for me. For one thing I don’t like driving far as is(especially with gas prices as they are now.)and flights are too expensive. Also I don’t like heights so yeah it’s a no go on a plane.

I’ve got a whole life here and I’m not willing to drop everything I’ve worked hard for and my family to go be with them. So unless the other person is willing to drop everything in their life and move out here it wouldn’t work. It’s a bit harsh but it’s the truth. My whole life is here. 

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