Lexamena 391 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 Brad sounds like a creepy pervert. This was at work? The next time he opens his mouth about anything of that nature, I would let him know up front that I was reporting his behavior to his supervisor and to human resources. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swish and Flick 63 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 (edited) This sounds totally made up. But to answer the question no. Edited December 30, 2015 by Swish & Flick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkiePie97 913 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 Unless he can read minds, I don't see how he could've figured it out. It was probably a lucky guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AccountNoLongerUsed 741 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 My opinion is this: the concept of virginity is a sham. It's impossible to tell XY virginity except for subjective personality traits that may just mean that the person is shy but still had sex. And for XX virginity, the Hymen can be lost in day to day activities and can, you know, grow back, So theres that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChefSandy 22 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 Go to HR, report what he said. That kinda talk is wildly inappropriate for work especially between coworkers who don't know each other. Doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Comic Sans 401 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 I don't think it is at all possible to tell if someone is a virgin or not. Even if you looked at someone and made your own decision, you could be surprised. Also, I don't think it really matters if someone is a virgin or not anyway. That guy just sounds like a creepy pervert and if he acts like this again, you should report him for it. It's incredibly inappropriate behaviour, especially in the work place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iltis 3 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 Losing your virginity doesn't change how you look or act, if you think otherwise, then you're a virgin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshi Frost Wolf 39,953 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 This 'Brad' guy must be reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally skilled at reading people then, because I never even knew this could be possible. I don't think it is possible at all, probably just some weird conversational happening in your case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swift Marquis 327 December 30, 2015 Share December 30, 2015 First of all : It`s possible, lik...... a lot well (60 % of the time) Second of all : It`s a trick xD , even I made it, it`s really easy, it`s like the things with a mentalist ....... you know he bluffs, and then he makes up a good proof that stands out, and baam .... magic :3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackshirt Brony 415 December 31, 2015 Share December 31, 2015 It is possible. A sort of black magick more innate in males. I'm not too familiar with the mechanics but it doesn't matter... The whole thing is basically a cheap trick. This sounds totally made up. I found the "grinning from ear to ear" portion the most amusing. First of all : It`s possible, lik...... a lot well (60 % of the time) Second of all : It`s a trick xD , even I made it, it`s really easy, it`s like the things with a mentalist ....... you know he bluffs, and then he makes up a good proof that stands out, and baam .... magic :3 I'm guessing you were born in July... I mean October. Maybe April. Anyway, I know just from your avatar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snow Frostflame 3,567 January 1, 2016 Share January 1, 2016 no it is not possible... having sex for the first time changes nothing about your appearence... maybe your personality a bit but not your appearence.... the best way you can tell is by asking them and paying close attention to their body language and the way they speak... if you know what your looking for you can easily catch a liar or discover they speak the truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jokuc 8,172 January 3, 2016 Share January 3, 2016 lol that's ridiculous. Of course you could take a guess and say that someone is a virgin because they seem like a person who either isn't very attractive or who doesn't do anything to meet people. Saying that you can know if someone is a virgin simply by looking at them is dumb. "Goes home, eats dinner, watches TV, goes to bed." I rarely meet new people, I don't socialize much with people irl and I'm not that good looking. All I do is go home, eat dinner, watch TV and go to bed and I'm not a virgin. Case closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Chaos~ 3,966 January 3, 2016 Share January 3, 2016 Of course not, pretty ridiculous that some people actually think that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lexamena 391 January 3, 2016 Share January 3, 2016 Not possible to tell if someone is a virgin by looking at them but it is possible to tell if someone is a sexual harasser by listening to them talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa 5,551 January 3, 2016 Share January 3, 2016 What a weirdo. No, it's not possible. Of course there's some details that could suggest if someone's a virgin, but no, you can't definitely tell if someone's a virgin just by their looks. unless they have a neckbeard and fedora Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeekySonic 1,150 January 5, 2016 Share January 5, 2016 I don't really know for sure. I mean, I myself have never verbally spoken the words, "I am a virgin," but everyone I know already knows that. But I guess that's mostly due to the fact that I live in a small town. If anyone has sex here, everyone knows about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oblivion 20,265 January 5, 2016 Share January 5, 2016 Nahh man, people just like to fuck around with other people that way. Happened is HS all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamecubeguy214 2,511 January 5, 2016 Share January 5, 2016 Maybe if they've done some crazy scientific research on what a virgin looks like. One question, is virginity wrong? Virgins seem to get so much hate. To be honest, I have never had sex before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Light Diamond 950 January 5, 2016 Share January 5, 2016 That guy sounds like a total ass. I don't think it's possible to tell if someone's a virgin or not just by looking at them. I don't know what's the big deal if someone's a virgin anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solid 1,326 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 (edited) Sounds like a semi-wild guess based on your age to me. The probability of someone being a virgin if he/she is 22 is most likely higher than the probability of someone being a virgin if he/she is 60. Of course, someone who is 22 is most likely going to act differently compared to someone who is 60. What's wrong with being a virgin anyways? Update: I suppose I could kind of get how he's going about now. No, I did not have sex right before this update. Possibility 1: I think he's more talking about confidence/self-esteem than actual romantic relationships. Media portrays romantic-relationship/sex as something necessary in life and as a symbol of power/love/approval/source-of-confidence-and-self-esteem. As ridiculous as it sounds, some people seem to buy into this. However, this is less likely compared to possibility 2. Possibility 2: Taboo vs. Not Taboo. If you had sex already, chances are when people bring it up, you are no longer as uncomfortable about the subject, at least compared to some people who haven't. From your post you seem to have showed him some pretty obvious cues that you are not comfortable with this topic, which led to his seemingly "psychic" conclusion. Procedure - He makes a wild guess based on your age - You show cues demonstrating that you are uncomfortable with topics about sex - He finds evidence that confirm his wild guess and makes his conclusion These being said, what if your answer was something like "B.S. I have a girlfriend and we already did it a while back then." or something similar? How do you think he's going to react? What's wrong with the subject of sex? Then again, what's wrong with being a virgin? Edited January 6, 2016 by Solid Scorpion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gearbox10mm 793 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 Sexual harassment in the workplace makes me a sad panda. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Invincible 2,090 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 Yyyyyeaaahhh... Most likely he just took a shot and it paid off. He had you fumbling and then gauged the situation from your answer. I guess it's a... male pride kind of thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sunny Fox 5,929 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 Why do guys who are virgins get teased? To me, it's related to the "slut" double standard. Men who are promiscuous are praised, women who are promiscuous are shamed. Thus a woman being a virgin is good, and a man being a virgin is bad. Don't let it get to you, it's a stupid expectation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim&Venöm 16,272 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 Virginity is a dated, draconian, midevil concept that has no place in today's society. All it does is permeate societies negative disposition & puritanical attitudes towards sex. At the end of this, ask yourself: Does the answer matter make a difference in the end? If you're with someone, does that change anything about them? And who cares what "Brad" thinks? The biggest mistake your generation and even mine have ever made, was giving credence to the thoughts & options of others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wicked Funky 2,955 January 6, 2016 Share January 6, 2016 This happaned to me as well when I started high school, she just looked at me for 10 seconds and then was able to tell. I was more astonished the anything else Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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