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Hey there @,

 

The nature of this topic would make it better suited for the Forum Lounge and thus it has been moved to there. I have also edited the topic title for easier clarification of what the thread is discussing.

 

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Last year, I lost my job and couldn't afford rent or anything anymore, so I was thrown out. Went homeless for some time seeing there isn't a homeless shelter in miles. Felt terrible and completely alone, fighting depression and hunger. Year passes and managed to get a job and secure shelter, but I always feel like I'm lacking something. Constant loneliness and lack of satisfaction.

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when I was in my last relationship actually. i got horredously lonely and homesick living with him. we were stuck in a room at his parents house and i had moved in out of desperation with my previous living arrangments. 

I felt I barely saw my friends then, we only spoke through teamspeak (theyve sadly all kinda ditched me now for him  anyway =/ ) and I felt I never saw my family when I was with him too. The worst time was Christmas Eve the year I was there. I didnt get to see my family until New Years (also lost my job that week), but doing Christmas without my familys traditions just upset me so much. I ended up in tears that Xmas Eve. Just utter homesickness. The whole time I dont think he really understood how much it was affecting me. 

These days im much better. I see my family all the time, I work with my Dad for a start. And even though we've not really seen many of our friends since we moved, Denz and I are very happy together and dont get lonely apart form the occasional time when we want to invite people over and theres not always someone to invite. =/ its getting better. Ive been taking to some old friends and we might hang out more soon, so alls better than it was. 

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I feel lonely often. The only two people I really talk to outside work are my brother and my best friend. It seems like whenever I try to get together with anyone else I know, they blow me off. I've met some new people through Meetup groups, but they live too far away to see during the week. And I've tried dating, but never really find anyone I'd be compatible with.

I guess it's at least helped me to know myself better, but I still wish this social junk came a little easier to me.

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Despite being online a lot having friends to talk to IRL, I am lonely more than I can count. But It's more that I chose to be alone. The more I've learned about this world, the more I wish to remove myself from the world that haunts all who give it mind. To much in this world has been twisted, yet the people of the world cannot see it. Or they choose to ignore it for the sake of keeping to a safe space. Eh, it's loneliness of the self inflicted kind I suppose. I've come to accept it and have learned to love my loneliness really.

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This is Lounge material? Yikes. 

For me, it's been every day since January 21st of this year. That is when my wife died. Loneliness will be there for  a long time to come, even though I've found peace. 

I made loneliness a cot. ;)

 

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(Points at pony collection) you know why i allways feel lonley and i will be forever alone? Cause instead of doing something with my life and finding a man and settleing down and haveing a family, i collect toy horses and play with them and im 21 damn years old. :'(  and no one would like a ugly girl like me in the picture who likes ponys ment for little girls, even my parents hate me for my pony love. TT-TT AND I COMPENSATE AND BUY MORE....X'(

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I felt really lonely when I was in hospital. I could not breath without a machine for almost a month. I saw one friend three times then. :adorkable: That was really irritating me.

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On 6-7-2017 at 7:47 PM, Amys-pmvs said:

(Points at pony collection) you know why i allways feel lonley and i will be forever alone? Cause instead of doing something with my life and finding a man and settleing down and haveing a family, i collect toy horses and play with them and im 21 damn years old. :'(  and no one would like a ugly girl like me in the picture who likes ponys ment for little girls, even my parents hate me for my pony love. TT-TT AND I COMPENSATE AND BUY MORE....X'(

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Nothings wrong with collecting stuf and not having a boyfriend. I think you should talk with your parents. Also, I am sure you are not as ugly as you think. Look at me for example. :twi:

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49 minutes ago, Hierok said:

Nothings wrong with collecting stuf and not having a boyfriend. I think you should talk with your parents. Also, I am sure you are not as ugly as you think. Look at me for example. :twi:

Thank you but i still am lonley, money truely cant buy happyness. :sunny:

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Just now, Amys-pmvs said:

Thank you but i still am lonley, money truely cant buy happyness. :sunny:

That is true. I can't deny that, but you can definitly work something out. "Make the best of everything" I always say and if that doesn't work, try to act like it! :)

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I do sometimes, but only if I’m missing someone really. I wouldn’t say there’s been anybody who’s “broke my heart” though.... 

Except if you count the times I’m really missing people I know who live far away from me. That feeling of missing them rips my heart out and that there is enough to feel heartbroken.

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I couple years ago when my dad took an overseas job I had to move out of state to live with my aunt and uncle. I had to leave everything familiar behind including my only real friend. My aunt and uncle were nice people but they weren't my people and I felt like a stranger in someone else's house (which I pretty much was). That was the most miserable and lonely I'd ever felt. But two weeks later my cousin was looking for a new roommate and invited me to move in with her. She's closer to my age and emotional level, and even though she's the total opposite of me in many ways I can connect with her and jumped at the chance to change my situation. That's when my life did a 180 and I'm better now. 

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Oh gads... College. Just college. I LIKED the academic part of school, but I never felt more isolated in my entire life. I had a string of HORRIBLE people for roommates (I did not get to choose them), and clinical depression an OCD/anxiety symptoms that had been building for years finally came to a head.

That’s probably why I joined these forums while I was there... I needed some nice people. <3

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A friend I cared about dropped off the forums completely and gradually got harder as days passed realizing she probably won't be coming back. She never returned.

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