Thuja 3,655 June 30, 2019 Share June 30, 2019 I don't know tbh... At first I thought I was gay, then I thought I was bi possibly, then I thought I was demisexual.. I still find people handsome or beautiful but I'm not necessarily sexually or romantically attracted to them???? It takes me a few years before I'm comfortable enough and have a strong enough bond with someone and THEN I finally become romantically or sexually attracted to them but most people don't have the patience to wait years for something that might never happen so I'm stuck with this mode of "what's the point in dating when no one will wait that long for me?". I don't know, I'm just weird???? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mini 449 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 i'm as straight as y=mx+b haha 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shimmer_Joy 9 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 I a pansexual pony y’all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amaranthine 8 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 I'm female and Bi, so yeah! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shrug 9,628 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 I’m completely straight. Always have been, always will be. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,262 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 3 hours ago, mini said: i'm as straight as y=mx+b haha I'm as straight as y=sinx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KH7672 1,595 July 1, 2019 Share July 1, 2019 3 hours ago, ~Angel Dust~ said: I'm as straight as y=sinx Yep, the math checks out: 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRockARooster 43,401 July 2, 2019 Share July 2, 2019 I’m straight but I have nothing but love for my friends in the LGBT community. *hugs all* 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Derpy 163 July 2, 2019 Share July 2, 2019 Asexual. I've always been a bit prude and entirely uninterested in anything behind closed doors. Does make dating a bit difficult. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiki 5,850 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 Demisexual, apparently. I thought I was asexual for a long time, but that's just because I hadn't found the right person to bring my affection levels high enough for me to become interested in such stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky Bells 34,673 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 I’m bisexual with a preference for guys. I’m always posting in here to keep up lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thuja 3,655 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 6 minutes ago, Bas said: What is demisexual? Does this mean you have found your special somepony? Aren't you either non-binary or MtF? From my understanding it's when you form romantic or sexual attraction to someone when you've formed a strong emotional bond with someone. And no, it's not the same as "everybody else", most people form sexual or romantic attraction either right away or over a few dates. For me personally to form a romantic attraction for someone it could take up to one and a half or three years, if not longer, for me to be really positive that I'd like to pursue some sort of relationship with someone and having either romantic or sexual attraction to them. Which really makes me feel guilty when someone confesses an attraction for me because I'm just like, "Gee, thanks? Sorry my dude, can you wait a few years for me to possibly reciprocate?" most people don't have the patience for that. If you're implying that one has to be enby or MTF to be demisexual, no, it doesn't work that way. You can be straight yet demi, gay yet demi, bi yet demi, etc. One's gender identity doesn't matter when they identify as demi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Will Guide 21,232 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 I'm mostly gay for other guys. Still, if a female friend needs assistance, I'll be open to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rainbow Cloud 9,721 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 Think I'm pretty much just straight. I'm supportive of other sexualities though. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiki 5,850 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 1 hour ago, Bas said: What is demisexual? Does this mean you have found your special somepony? Aren't you either non-binary or MtF? Me? I thought I was straight, maybe also homoromantic, meanwhile, I am not so sure whether I might be bisexual - or rather pansexual, because it doesn't matter to me after not making such a distinction anymore.Then again, I was never in a relationship in my life. If I am pan(bi) sexual, I still assume I am still roughly 90/95% straight. Basically, I'm not attracted to anyone unless I have an emotional connection with them. Like, I can't just see Mr. (supposed) Hot Stud or Ms. Sexy Legs walk by and go "ooh la la." I just don't feel anything towards strangers. But my PARTNER on the other hand hoohoo damn she's a hot ass babe MMF Also, gender, sex, and the actual appearance of the person doesn't matter. I could be dating someone that everyone thinks is ugly but if I love them I will find them attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshi 39,410 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 Me: Thought I was bisexual before but then I realized I basically have absolutely no desire whatsoever to be with a female. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Here No Longer 5,262 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 I used to think I was pansexual but then I realized that... Although I think I may be very much incidentally straight. I do mean very much, as in I might as well just say I'm gay anyways. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Small Bear 62 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 I consider myself straight. Mostly straight, anyway. I've crushed on and even dated a few girls. I'm just not typically attracted to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thuja 3,655 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 3 hours ago, Bas said: Sounds like the soul mates thing. I wouldn't say soulmates, demi relationships can fall apart just as simply as "regular" relationships can. It just takes longer for someone to form romantic or sexual attraction for others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherry Pop 15 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 I'm Ace. At least, that's what people call it when they don't feel comfortable using the other word. In other words, not physically attracted to anyone. Although... I debate whether it's really an orientation, or a lack of one. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiki 5,850 July 17, 2019 Share July 17, 2019 3 hours ago, Bas said: Sounds like the soul mates thing. It is really how much you make out of it, I guess. And maybe what you and others expect from you. It is not that I am not thinking about this anymore at all, but it definitively got less when I stopped making a fuss about it. And maybe I started to care less about my sexuality, or I considered it to be less defining to me. Pics please. * MtF? Considering you pretty much pleased praised the lengthened back of your partner - Did you always feel about that special piece that way or was it coming over time? Are you female? Your profile lists you as other (non-binary?). No pics. uwu I'm keeping her to myself. I actually wasn't attracted to her for a while, it took maybe about 5 months for me to genuinely start getting uhhhhhh excited over things. It's always scary during that period where I'm not attracted, because it makes me scared whether I actually like the person or not, or if I'll ever be attracted to them. I'm born male and have been on hormones for almost a year and a half, but I'll never look like a woman so I refuse to call myself MtF and calling myself a man just hurts so I just leave it as other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fasu 550 July 18, 2019 Share July 18, 2019 Been straight for whole life but have considered lately that i might be asexual. But maybe i haven't just found yet that "special somepony". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiki 5,850 July 18, 2019 Share July 18, 2019 1 hour ago, Bas said: Does sound you are too harsh to yourself, I would just consider you female I guess; or if you want to highlight you are in transition you could call yourself trans mtf/female. There's nothing female or feminine about me though so I feel like it's lying if I call myself one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mini 449 July 18, 2019 Share July 18, 2019 6 minutes ago, Shiki said: There's nothing female or feminine about me though so I feel like it's lying if I call myself one. idk u seem pretty feminine to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shiki 5,850 July 18, 2019 Share July 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, mini said: idk u seem pretty feminine to me Not physically like damn im like an nfl linebacker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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