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How would you respond to a romantic confession?


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I had a few "confess" before... more like demand I go out with them. If I had a genuine confession by someone I knew, I feel like I would give them a chance as long as they were around my age.

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It's always going to depend on who they are, and what they are to me, and exactly how they are confessing to me. 

I would say the answer is usually gonna be no. Considering that I'm aromantic(only recently been having doubts); however, there are a few people I know who if asked me out I guess I would say yes simply to explore, tho I'm always leaning towards the possibility that I am aromantic. So for those people I would probably "I'm down to date but know this about me..." And tell them the reality of what dating me would entail and possibly lead to. The reason why I would tell them all this is because they are my friends.

If it was a stranger or someone I didn't know very well I'd probably just end up being like "Nah I'm good" or "I'm not interested in dating." 

Back when I was a romantic person I was dating somebody and they told me they loved me but told them honestly that I didn't feel the same way. They wanted something very serious but we were both in college and different colleges so I def. didn't want to be a part of a relationship during that time. 

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I don’t know how I’d react.   I’ve had a couple people tell me they have a crush on me, but I’ve never had anyone announce a romantic confession to me.  
 

I kinda have a bit of a fear of someone liking me like that, and then just being completely disappointed when they get to know me, so I don’t know how I’d react.  I think I’d be flattered but not 100% sure I’d let it progress. 

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Nothing honestly, I would respond kindly to it but like you don't really respond to that unless the feeling was mutual. I believe anyone would be flattered of course. Though it depends on the context, if I knew the person I would likely pursue it if I didnt I'd be flattered then go on as if it was as simple as a compliment that is.

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Depends on the person and the situation. 

If it’s a random creep or just someone who gave me bad vibes then I wouldn’t respond. Now if this was inperson I have no idea what I’d do. Typically this situation has applied to me only online.

If it’s a normal situation and I’m not interested I will let them down gently. But I will respond. Creeps get left on read or blocked. Not normal decent people. Now in person this may go a bit more awkwardly just due to how I am but the same applies. Let down gently. 

Now if I am interested I will overthink my response back however I will respond and express my interest back as unawkwardly as possible. In person there’s no saving the awkwardness. It will be awkward and I will accept. Awkwardly. 

 

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