general Your Ideal Date?

[privet 175]

coffee date,then walk in nature/or restaurant

 

 

[TBD 17,228]

Ideally, going to a nice orchestra/opera concert or a jazz concert at a nice lounge. But if anything else going to the mall. I don’t mind doing shopping as a date since I love shopping. I’m sure my “one-day”partner (whoever that will be) would love that idea too. 

[Last Line of Defense 97]

Somewhere isolated from people, camping preferably. Fishing, sleeping under the stars somewhere where nobody can get to us. Some good food, literally though, there's a list of things you can do with a small group of people, but I'd like to disappear with a good woman like this some day

[Phosphor 11,522]

My ideal date would be stargazing and S'mores by the campfire. I love activity dates like bowling, laser tag, axe throwing, etc.

I'm pretty decent at holding a conversation during dinner dates but prefer an activity to go along with it. Great way to bond and connect with someone, in my opinion.

[Theautisticrebel 290]

Maybe something like Bowling, going to the movie theater, a convention, or an ice cream parlor.

[Winter Storm 206]

No idea to be honest. I've never been on a date and can't meet anyone I'd consider myself compatible with.

[Treeglow Flicker 13,019]

I'm not sure what my ideal date would be. But I've kind of liked the idea of going to an aquarium or zoo and walking around together.

[Props Valroa 26,040]

My ideal date is with someone who is far more powerful than me socially, mentally. Someone who can teach me how to be a better person, guide me, and help me become stronger. 

[Clawdeen 12,109]

I feel like coffee dates are a nice first date.

[MangoFoalix 24,898]

Already am dating two girls but I guess my ideal one would just seeing them irl, though that will happen eventually.

[Aurelion Star 432]

Oohh I love this question. One would be eat lunch together in the mall, then watch a movie after, then roam around the mall then eat dinner afterwards before going home

[Gone Airbourne 21,969]

Nice long walks in beautiful scenery as this... listening music together or watching shows together too. As long as it's peaceful I'm happy. Simple things 

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[Twitchy-Tremor 281]

Idk I guess we’d have a lot of geeky things we like it dosnt have to be the same things though and we’d laugh a lot and….. I’m not really sure. When I think of a date I imagine a fancy restaurant but I don’t want that… 

[Guest]

Mmm it depends. There were times where I can say a date at a nice restaurant, event/show, a long walk with beautiful scenery. I don't think going to the movies or getting coffee count as real dates. At the movies, you are just sitting in the dark and aren't speaking to your date unless you are a rude individual. As for coffee dates- they are just interviews for stranger danger in my opinion.

If you aren't sure on the person- I'd recommend to vet people by having a short video call or so before going on a date and go from there. Have some topics and important things that you expect to see from the date and discuss with the person you are interested in. The more clear the communication, the better. If after the call, you have any gut feelings or reservations against going out with a person, respectfully thank them for their time and politely decline.

Edited September 21, 2023 by StarlightNyars

[daviddaviddavid 772]

A hike and then a meal at a restaurant, probably. Never met anyone who really enjoys that type of thing though

[Iforgotmybrain 3,505]

Honestly it kinda depends on the person. Walk in the park and then some other activity after, like dinner, shopping, usually goes pretty well.
 

Most of the ideal dates I have in mind would be more like couple activities because you’re not going to do something like a long car trip or go camping with someone you just started dating lmao.

[EpicEnergy 22,074]

It would depend on the other person, I don't really like going anywhere to be honest. I never really thought of it much though because the chances of me actually going on one with someone is very unlikely.