Answer The Love Question Above You!

[Sunset Rose 251]

Yes and no, I learned English and Latvian when I was growing up since my mother is American but lived in Riga, he learned Russian and Latvian since his father's side of the family is Russian. We speak Latvian to each other, but his English is really good too.

What was the last argument you and your partner got into over?

 

[Here No Longer 5,270]

Actually, we haven't really argued over anything since the say we met... We argued about how I didn't like his self-pity and his need to force his feelings down other people's throats. We got over that fairly quickly even with the heated words exchanged, and within a week or so fell in love.

 

Though I almost got into it with him last night I think... He was frustrated with my anxiety being in the way of me asking my dad if he could drive halfway and they'll pick me up there. It hopefully won't be a big issue when I ask. Nonetheless he was being kind of flippant with me and suggesting I wasn't really taking our relationship seriously. Though he should know better than that.

 

Same?

[SparklingSwirls 21,261]

Not going to answer that here, too personal.

How do you keep the romance alive? 

Edited May 6, 2019 by SparklingSwirls

[Here No Longer 5,270]

Well, we participate in email conveesation with each other every day... One some days, like yesterday, we talk for HOURS...

 

Same (lazy)?

Edited May 6, 2019 by Dusklicious

[Sunset Rose 251]

We go out and have fun whenever we can. We both work a lot so that isn't often, but we try and keep the "I'm too tired to-"s to a minimum so we can still go out and do things. If we stay home it inevitably turns into another night where I'm on the computer and he's in front of the TV with his mates yelling at football.

Does your partner embarrass you in public? Vice-versa?

[Kamii 594]

Not that I can remember, but he is completely capable of doing so.

Same question :3

[Lucky Bolt 34,914]

Yes because he's always trying to kiss me in public and I get too embarrassed. 

Same?

[Here No Longer 5,270]

Neither of us have, but knowing how we are getting to be with each other, we'd both try to do it...

 

Considering the fact we're a gay couple in Texas of all states it might be extra embarrassing...  At least the first time we'll be out as a couple would likely be in Houston, which I hear is quite a tolerant city.

 

Same?

Edited May 6, 2019 by Dusklicious

[Kronos the Revenant 1,971]

No, we don’t embarrass each other. 

 

Same

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,585]

Not really, considering we're in an LDR.

[Cyclone 1066 3,616]

She's always trying to fight to keep from holding my hand in public and it embarrasses me because I think it looks like one of two things to outsiders. Either we're having a fight...........or something else that seems to be more and more of a mainstream issue these days.

Same?

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,585]

*see my previous answer*

What music do you and your partner enjoy?

[BabylonSister 218]

Oml like almost everything. From Ken Nordine (word jazz) to Primus (heavy rock) to Owl city (pop rock).

We actually started dating because of our similar eclectic taste in music. I burned him a CD (and also customized with some badass shitty sharpie drawings) of Primus Sailing the Seas of Cheese and Frizzle Fry and his parents were like holy shit a cute girl gave it to you? You should probably marry her.

I'm more into classic stuff though. I think his horizons are a bit broader

Do you like any music that your partner cant stand or vice versa?

Edited May 7, 2019 by BabylonSister

[Cyclone 1066 3,616]

I love Green Day and she hates them.

Same?

[Here No Longer 5,270]

Luckily, not as far as I know. In fact, he's made me acquire a taste in electronic music I didn't used to have!

 

Has your SO introduced you to any music/shows/movies/etc. that you now absolutely love?

[Sunset Rose 251]

No, as far as I know the only thing he ever watches is sports and the movies I watch. So t's probably the other way around.

Did you ever have to curb or kick any habits for the sake of your relationship?

[Kamii 594]

Only bad habits of mine that I can remember (things like constantly putting myself down).

That's a great question, same one~

[TBD 17,228]

No need to. 

same?

[Here No Longer 5,270]

He's been trying to curb his smoking and his moodiness, and I've been trying to kick my habit of constantly putting myself down, and also address my laziness. We've also both been trying to get over anxiety.

 

Same (Good question)?

Edited May 7, 2019 by Dusklicious

[BabylonSister 218]

We are both lazy as hell so we're have to work together to be not potatoes now that we're living together to keep our appartment clean. I cant play video games as much cause it's so hard for me to stop once I start, and he cant listen to good and legitimately scary creepypasta readings as often cause they tend to freak me out, but its mostly the random scary images they put on the screen.

[JonasDarkmane 19,777]

I've had to speak a lot more than I am used to doing with other people. Usually, I stay very quiet and don't say a lot. She asks me to speak and say something. Can't let her be the only one putting any kind of effort into having a conversation. 

 

Is having children something you have considered or something you might see wanting in the future with your spouse? 

[Here No Longer 5,270]

I haven't talked to him yet about adopting kids (we can't have biological children, considering two males can't reproduce), but if he would want to, I'm more than willing to take on the challenge. After all, we would be taking a child from what probably would be a toxic environment, and helping them prosper. I will talk to him about it when the time comes though. I feel like it isn't really something to discuss this early on.

 

Same?

Edited May 9, 2019 by Dusklicious

[Rebel the Wolfgirl 5,585]

Eeyup, it is.

Either through adoption or birth.

[Lucky Bolt 34,914]

It’s been discussed but only time will tell. Whatever happens, happens. I would be just as happy with or without kids. 

Same? 

Edited May 9, 2019 by Lucky Bolt

[Mirage 24,136]

I already have kids, so yeah, it's the highest achievement of love.

-same-