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Last time I chatted here I said I was aromantic and you know maybe I'm not? Like I started to explore myself more and I do want to date because I want to be emotionally bonded with someone or more than one person (poly if anything). Of course you don't need to be romantically involved in order to do that but I desire the romance portion/aesthetic of it now/again. There's alot of nuance with it that I won't go into but yea. 

Of course, maybe if I ever end up getting in a romantic relationship and it doesn't feel right then I'll just be like "guess I was aromantic." And that's fine. Not being around people is really making all this stuff fuzzy. 

Attempts on tinder and other websites didn't go anywhere so maybe I'll have more luck now considering that I moved? Kind of doubt it but not against trying. Still much more occupied with other things going on right now so maybe in a month or 2. 

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Those moments when you can’t tell if she’s being friendly or if she’s into you/goes that way. 

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I'm still a homoromantic pansexual who identifies as non-binary and isn't picky about pronouns (he/him or they/them don't care an awful lot, though they/them is more accurate).

 

Still have moments I wish I wasn't in a closed relationship because I don't exclusively go that way and some girls/in-betweens are attractive, but that should stay here and not leave.

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I've also been questioning my sexuality a lot lately because it's confusing as hell. It's too difficult to tell if I'm grey-ace or not, or if I'm truly panromantic. It feels like it changes so much and I don't really understand it.

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I like keeping things simple, pansexual genderfluid androgynous person in other words I have ascended to another realm. That said I don't believe in these self labelling things, I like people I like and I like being who I like being uwu that's it.

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Not sexuality but kinda fits here so yea

Seeing all those 100 gender things confused me back then and the gender is personality thing doesn't make a lot of sense. Like the way I express myself do I really need a gender label for it xP If I feel both feminine and masculine or feel different like so what? 

Like trying to escape gender roles and that, just recreate them as even more boxes surely. I want people to value me for who I am not some socially constructed thing and to again divide myself against others even more. 

Just because you reject certain gender roles or stereotypes shouldn't change who you are. In fact it's kinda sad things like being a woman are associated with make up and harmful footwear and such. There are also equivalents for men but more subtle.

I just wanna escape all these harmful social dynamics and live as freely as possible while maintaining some sense of harmony with others. Creating something like that doesn't help me or anyone, but neither do I want people to force stereotypes on me. And we are all still individuals.

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