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Bullying: Experiences and How to Deal With It


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Bullied or not?  

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  1. 1. Have you ever been bullied?

    • Yes, I have been bullied.
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    • No, I haven't been bullied.
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    • I don't remember if I have been bullied or not.
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    • I am a bully.
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When I was in primary school and secondary school I was bullied for being different than most of my classmates. List is quite long: I did not escape classes, I wasn't drinking alcohol, I wasn't smoking, for me watching porn on IT lessons was nothing impressive and I was shy, timid + extremely peaceful. Did not care about any "funny" thing they did like throwing a tomato on polish flag in one classroom. Yeah, that was so hardcore. I was bullied mostly verbally. But I was also beaten few times and my bullies enjoyed stealing my things like pens, some small amounts of money or other things I can't get back with police. I did not get any help from teachers, because 3 of my bullies had good marks and "made school proud, I was obviously jealous of them" and other crap like that. Well, let's cut it now. You probably wonder how did I get through those times. My solution was easy.

 

1. I avoided company of bullies. Why sticking with them when You can go with someone, who You actually like and have pauses between classes "peaceful"? Sure, sometimes they were looking for me, but I still had plenty of time without them pretending to be funny and trying to make my life miserable hard.

 

2. The trick is- bullies got bored both in primary and secondary school shortly after they began bullying me. Do You know why? Because except talking to teacher once I did not care a bit about them. I ignored them and treated them like air. What's entertaining in bullying someone who does not care? Nothing. Sadly they started bullying someone else then, but I was too weak and shy to do something about it. To this day I regret :(

 

3. Talk with Your parents. I know what some people say. "They will make it worse" and other stuff like that. They won't. They will try to help and in my case one person got almost thrown from school when dad stormed principal and started yelling after I came back home with my shirt in pieces. I just told him what teacher did about me being bullied and gave whole story. Your parents will always stand with You, You can disagree with them in some cases, even I disagree with my sometimes, but they will do what they can to help You (well, there are some exceptions always, but they are quite rare ). 

 

4. NEVER answer them. They are like trolls. And we all know that trolls should not be feed. Hard task, but worth the effort.

 

5. Remember, now they are those stronger ones. But as someone who is 21 old as well as people who bullied him I will say one thing- karma is a b... none of them have easy life, one of them works for my dad and is probably worst employee my dad ever had. They are strong in group. Alone they are MUCH weaker than people, they bully. Remember about that. Bullies ARE weak. Only weak people need a company to act "badass" and try to attack the ones that are probably weaker than them. 

 

 

I hope it helped at least a bit. This is what helped me and I hope it will help someone as well. Also if someone needs to talk with someone about it- feel free to PM me. I was there. I will be glad to help someone else who has this problem.

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  • 1 year later...

Note: this news report is old and it has come to my attention that this must be over looked.

 

 

Now the student bully's are not only the problem now apparently we have school staff members that also are against this. Now don't get me wrong I didn't really didn't get how bronies like this show back then either ,but something like this has to be looked over. I'm not certain if this problem is resolved or not but give me a shout if it is or not.

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I moved around a lot so I was always the new kid, I had few or no friends to back me up since I had a hard time making them.  Which made me an easy target for most bullies or for people who were simply bored.  I was made fun of for everything from only having a mom, mom going to school, what I looked like, what I smelled like, pretty much anything you can think of.  I was called plenty of names that I would never repeat in polite company and for the longest time, I started to believe them so I never did anything about it.  This bullying never stopped either, it continued on to college and I was having harassment issues with my neighbours at the same time.  If people think only kids bully, they are dead wrong.  

 

When I was in college, I finally started to do something about it, I tried to stand up for myself but at the time my sexuality/ gender identity was the target of bullies at the time so I didn't really know how to deal with it since I myself still have issues regarding my sexual/gender identity.  I relapsed into a suicidal bout again and I had to move once again, I'm getting better but I still have to learn how to deal with bullies.  The problem was, was that I never went to the teacher or principal about my bullying problems, I never stood up for myself and I believed what people were saying about me were true.  I suggest you speak up if you're being bullied or cyber-bullied, learn to speak up for yourself.  I know it's easier said than done but it will help you later on in life when people can be far crueler than they are in school.

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  • 5 years later...

I was bullied but I just beat up my bullies so they only bullied me to the point of me doing so. My advice is to simply take the bully and put them in their place which is on the ground. So what I learned is the only way to stop bullying or a bully is you have to show you are stronger. 

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When i was on the middle school and the high school, i have been bullied and i was always beaten up by my classmates for some reason, or me being different than my classmates, unfortunately i do not had anyone (apart from my dad... lol i think it sounds so shameful... ) to protect me.

I was trying to make some friends and maybe they will protect me, but like i said, everyone just ignores me.

Now when i finished the high school, i am soo terrified that if i will meet one of my former classmate, it will start doing again. 

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I was bullied in high school due to an exe boyfriend spreading rumors about me. For awhile, it really got to me and I refused to attend school. I was actually sent to a school refusal program for a few months. When I came back to school, I realized that I was the one who decided the outcome of being bullied. I could either let it get to me or to ignore it. I chose the latter.

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I have been bullied by stupid kids who think that can take advantage of me because Im a "white innocent" kid. 

I won't take it, I have never taken it, if Im being taken advantage of I will stop them, I never cared if I had to get into a fight, I got into a few even. All the teachers supported me so I always got out winning. 

Also, if they call me names I just don't listen and keep doing whatever I was doing, they get bored afterwards.

As a result, its really a :grin: for someone to try to bully me. Just behave to the point the teachers love you, that way you are untouchable, and if you have to get into a fight, I wouldn't hestitate, that shows that you aren't afraid and that you can also hit hard.

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I got tired of the bully I had to deal with and just cut her off as she was speaking and walked away. That shut her up for the rest of the year :ButtercupLaugh:

She picked on my for liking kid’s shows (I wore an MLP shirt to school one day). She even picked on me for liking Spongebob of all shows. Eventually I realized everything as saying about my interests was dumb and I could watch whatever I wanted to.

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I was allowed to go to a special school when there school I previously went to had too many bullies to deal with (I was bullied by them).

 

The new school was odd, in that it has a personal assistant for every student. All students at the school had some form of an issue, usually having trouble at home with family. By always having an assistant by my side, there were very little problems. And when it happened, and yes it did! We were sent to talk about it, and also talk to our parents (only family and school, not family against family). It resolved the issues really fast.

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