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Happy being single?

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Eh, it honestly depends on the day.  Most days, yeah, I'm perfectly fine being single because it seems to give me a lot of free time.  I can't say from personal experience, but romantic relationships appear to require a lot of effort from both parties and I'm not sure if I'm mentally capable of holding up my end of the bargain at this point in my life.  It's a lot of stress that I really don't need while I'm in my last years of college.  There's the rare days where I wonder what it would be like, but those are few and far between enough that I can generally ignore them.

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Happy? Ehh, Being alone is better than being a bad relationship I suppose. But being alone, for me at least, indicates that I also have too few people that I can call friends, so whee. 

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As I said before, I'm happy either way...but despite happiness, there is still the feeling of loneliness.  So, to try to stop the loneliness...relationships are overrated...I don't need one...just keep telling myself that.  -_-

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I'm single,and I guess you could say that I'm happy that I don't have to go through all the troubles with having a relationship.

 

But,I still can't help but feel like I want a person to cuddle with. Not that my plushies are bad or anything. It's just that they're too tiny to cuddle.

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Not happy about it. Felt like crap ever since getting out of a relationship.

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Lately I really have been in the hating my single status phase frequently....I even get a sick feeling in my stomach when I hear girls in school talk about a couple they know or a guy they like. The only person who could love me nowadays would be a boyfriend, so not having one anymore sucks alot :( I want to feel accepted and loved for who I am as a person. I want to have someone I can trust with anything and talk to about any topic under the sun....I just want to be myself with someone again to the fullest extent.

 

That desire doesn't mean I'll get with the first guy who (miraculously) shows an interest in me :) I've definitely developed some trust issues due to my breakup so getting with me won't be easy at all. Just because I'm lonely doesn't mean I'm desperate. I want company sure, but a partner should be more than that, and that's something all you singles should keep in mind. Don't just be with someone because you want to have someone so badly the desire just eats at you. Be careful and think about what you're getting yourself into. There's a lesser chance of you hurting your partner that way ;)

Edited by Pink Mist

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Meh, I could take it or leave it. It's not that I'm happy about it and I do get lonely quite often, but I'm just not a big fan of people. I can't see myself being in a relationship with most girls so I guess I don't actively look for dates/relationships, but that's not to say I wouldn't ever at least try with somebody who I felt I'd get along with

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I am single and I'm not really happy about it. Seeing couples all lovey dovey makes me feel sad

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I'm single, childfree, and quite happy about it.

I don't have to answer to anyone about what I do with my time, and I spend my money however I want.

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Not really sure, I was easily more happier when dating my gf but with how that turned out, I'm a bit hesitant when it comes to relationships (and people overall). I'm sure as hell not happy being single, but it's not the end of the world for me. It would be nice to have a gf though.

 

Really wish people would stop with that cruel as fuck saying "you can't love someone else until you love yourself uwu", nice job saying that someone doesn't deserve to feel love towards others just because they don't love themself.

Edited by Wheatley

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