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Hansel

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  1. BEHOLD THE FUCKS I GIVE ABOUT GENDER NORMS. Anyway, skirts give me an excuse to wear legnings. Those things are comfy man. :I Especially if you're like me and refuse to wear jeans unless you have to peel them off spatula at the end of the day.
  2. I'm gonna be honest, I couldn't be more disconnected from what men and women should and shouldn't wear. If I see an item of clothing in a shop that I like and I want to buy it, I buy it. I don't see why a tiny label on the inside that might say "F" should prevent me from that. In fact, I'm not really sure which of my clothes are intended for women and which are intended for men. (Aside from the skirts and kimono.) I honestly just... stopped caring, and I don't really think of it as cross-dressing either. I don't wear womens clothes "because it's the real me" or "because it makes me feel more comfortable in my own skin", and I don't really understand why I need to be transgendered to wear clothes associated with women. I don't value clothes on that kind of level. If I feel comfortable in something, and it looks okay on me... then what else do I need? They're just clothes..and I like clothes... :I I think it's also important to remember that's what seen as a male aesthetic and what's seen as a female aesthetic is mostly subjective and varies between different societies and different civilisations. At the end of the day, they're just arbitrary rules that don't really make a great deal of sense.
  3. There's a difference between being honest about your sexuality and performing the whole "coming out" parade. I'm not saying anyone should keep their sexuality a secret, far from it. I just don't see how people can say that being queer doesn't make you any different to heterosexuals, and then turn around and promote the idea of "coming out" if you're not straight, as well as using queer sexualities as a label or an identity and calling people with non-heterosexual sexualities a "community". You're saying that being queer isn't a big deal, but treating it as if it is. It just seems counterintuitive to me. Also, that. ^ The only reason a lot of people probably don't know that I'm not straight is because they haven't actually asked me about my sexuality. I don't see why I should have to alert the whole world about it, just as straight people don't. (Well, some straight people feel the need to I suppose ) And people assume I'm straight most of the time because of this.
  4. Hansel

    mega thread Metal Thread

    *sniff sniff* I smell Industrial Metal. *puts on military gear* *all of the eye liner* *counts up to 4 in German repeatedly* http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=lViCo8cbD_8&feature=related Yeah,,, Industrial Metal is good.
  5. I never actually understood the premise of "coming out" to be honest. If I was heterosexual, would I have to call a family meeting and alert everyone about my sexual preference? "Guys, there's something I've been meaning to tell you... I'm... I'm straight!" I just think it's a bit of an oxymoron when you're told that being queer doesn't mean that you should be treated differently to straight people, but then you're also told that you should hold some kind of ceremony to tell everyone about you being queer. By doing that, you're treating yourself differently. It's such a non-issue and I honestly can't get my head around why everyone is so fixated about it. Why the Hell does it even matter? "WE'RE HERE. WE'RE QUEER. GET USED TO IT!" No one cares, I'm trying to eat my lunch.
  6. No, of course not. Whilst it's true that environmental reasons can effect your sexuality, it isn't something you can change in the same way you can change your belief in something. Belief is something you can critically analyse and change based on evidence (or lack of) as well as probability. Sexuality is how you feel. If you become attracted to someone, that isn't something you can help. I mean, yeah, you can repress those feelings all you want, and eventually, those feelings might go away, but it doesn't change the fact that you were attracted to that person to begin with. Saying that, sexuality is something that's fluid, and can shift and change throughout a person's life. You say sexuality isn't a conscious choice, so for arguments sake, let's go with that. If it isn't something you consciously choose, then it's subconscious, meaning that it's something you aren't aware of and cannot control. So... if it isn't a conscious choice and you aren't aware of it or have any control over it... then is really a choice at all? Furthermore, if you wanted to change your sexuality, you'd have to alter your subconscious desires... which you can't... because it's subconscious.
  7. Really awesome cover, you have a lot of talent. My favorite drummer is Tim Yatras, so if could cover something from one of , it would awesome.
  8. Oh yes, I forgot about the day I consciously decided to find men and women sexually attractive. Kind of like that time I decided that liking tangerines was a ridiculous hobby, and told my taste buds to knock it off.
  9. How do I sit on a chair? Indubitably. *takes out a bottle of port* Balderdash! Jeeves, fetch me that blasted corkscrew before I resort to unscrupulous measures!
  10. Cartoons: Gravity Falls Green Lantern: The Animated Series Tron: Uprising Avatar: The Last Airbender Avatar: The Legend of Korra Adventure Time Regular Show Samurai Jack The Powerpuff Girls The Amazing World of Gumball Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends Chowder Xiaolin Showdown Jackie Chan Adventures Invader Zim Anime: Code Geass Death Note The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya Ouran High School Host Club Panty and Stocking Lucky Star (I don't know why, but my mind is completely blank on anime at the moment) Live action: Game of Thrones Children of Dune Doctor Who Arrow Once Upon a time True Blood Big Bang Theory The Mighty Boosh Battlestar Galactica Heroes QI
  11. Pansexuality is essentially bisexuality but with a different mindset. Bisexuals generally like both sex's, but they still think about a person's sex or gender. A bisexual may or may not like one sex more then the other, and may or may not be attracted to transgendered and transsexual people. A pansexual is "gender blind", so they don't care at all about a person's sex or there gender. They're equally open to males, females, male/women and female/men. A bisexual can still be open to everyone equally, but they still have feelings towards sex or gender. The misconception is that pansexuals are people who are attracted towards males and females, as well as transgendered and transsexual people, whilst bisexuals are only attracted towards males and females who are cisgendered, but that isn't strictly true. Hope that made sense. :3
  12. I've never been able to apply sexuality to myself, it just doesn't make a lot of sense... to me, anyway. I personally find that it's something very fluid and changes all the time. Giving it arbitrary labels makes it really confusing for me. Sometimes I'm attracted to one sex more then the other, sometimes it's about the same for both, and sometimes I'm only attracted to one sex. I've always found it a bit of a none-issue and I've never really understood why there's a "community" thing behind it. I suppose they work as descriptive terms, but I don't really see why people use them as labels. Meh, I guess it works for some people. I think there's a difference between being gay and being camp. I've met camp straight guys, and I've met non-camp gay guys. I guess that most of the camp guys I have met have been gay, but seeing as there's still camp heterosexuals and non-camp homosexuals, I don't think the two are strictly synonymous. I personally find the majority of camp gay men tend to be the type that are very involved in the "community" side of it, which like I said, I never really got. But that's just my observation.
  13. Hansel

    mega thread Metal Thread

    I like my Metal how I like my intercourse. Frostbitten, and progressive. http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmoe7wwm4HM&feature=related But, you know... I like almost everything else too. Also, thanks. m/ :Pm/
  14. Did someone say books? I'm currently reading Frank Herbert's Dune. I actually first picked it a really long time ago, but then got distracted by some stuff. Then I decided to read some Terry Pratchett and an Anne Rice book. Then I Found a really beautifully illustrated copy of Alice in Wonderland, so I read that, and then the library was giving away free books, so that distracted me. But then I was like... wait... wasn't I reading a really awesome sci-fi novel? And then I picked up Dune again and it's awesome.
  15. Just felt like I had to point out that this sort of reminds me of Birthday Massacre's . Which is... you know... awesome. At least for me. Though if you're gonna make more music, I wouldn't worry too much about genres, they're not that important.
  16. Ah! The jelly! It burns!
  17. ... I... I don't understand... What is this madness? Excuse me... I just... I think I need to go and cry in that corner for a while. And then take a walk. I just... I don't understand...
  18. Words cannot fathom how much jelly I feel.
  19. I suppose that as a newbie in these parts, I should post my face. Here's me being being silly while I was supposed to be working: Here's me doing... something. And here's one of me completely sober... which I will spoiler to save accidental viewing. I'm a man that likes to take life very seriously. -_- I approve of this.
  20. Well, I'm probably the only person in the world who still uses a Walkman. xD But here are the artists/bands I have on CD's. Norther Ghost in the Static The Birthday Massacre And One Asphyxia Apoptygma Berzerk Grendel Ashbury Heights Blutengel (Actually, I better Spoiler this list, might get a bit long)
  21. I don't really follow a lot of reality TV that everyone seems to obsess over, including stuff like X Factor, [insert country]'s Got Talent and those sort of shows. I also don't really keep up with these Soap shows people rave on about, it's just not really my kind of thing. I used to be a pretty avid gamer until the 360 and PS3 came out. I got my XBox 360 and carried on playing games for PC for a while, but found that very few of any of the new games really appealed to me. They just didn't have the same addictive quality to me as the PS2 games. I used to really enjoy RTS games, but found that a lot of the new ones were getting a bit too over-the-top for my taste. I actually really enjoyed how a lot of the old RTS games (especially the 90's ones) left room for the imagination... partly because of the poor graphics. xD There have been a few exceptions though, I really enjoyed Portal and Gears of War. Actually, the fact that I don't game much anymore can be frustrating at times. Video games seem to be A LOT more popular then the were when I was a gamer, and a lot of my friends at uni as well the pony fandom in general seem to be big on games. Maybe one day I'll get back into it. :3
  22. It's lovely meeting you too! (See, I'm more of a fan of Austere, Gallowbraid, Woods of Desolation, Agalloch, Sienbenburgen, Winterhorde, Wolfchant, Wodensthrone and I'll stop there or the list gets too long.) But... but... Fluttershy...
  23. When it comes to art/entertainment, I'm more of a "behind the scenes" person... if that makes sense. :3 Although I am a professional model part time... usually in front of camera, so I'm not sure if that really counts, but I did do a small fashion show once as well. You and me both. Music has been a passion of mine for a very long time now... I don't see it ever going anywhere. I blame reality. e_e
  24. As far as TV series goes, it's definitely a tie between these two for me. http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJoIwGeKs3A http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7L2PVdrb_8 With films... it's a little harder for me to choose, but this comes has to be one of them.
  25. Don't be ridiculous, applejack could never disappoint anyone. -_-
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